(Closed) Do you and your SO role play?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

To be honest, I’m far too lazy for role playing, and my FI isn’t into lingerie or costumes at all, so there’s no pressure. 😉

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MrsDPal811:  I mean, don’t get me wrong, I’m pro-sex. I just don’t feel the need for a lot of bells and whistles to bling out the sexing.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I definitely wish we did it more. We have a few times, but he’s been so busy with work (he’s military) that lately he’s been getting out really late, so when we do have sex it’s doggie or something.

But when we get the chance, we definitely like to do it. Not so much with costumes thus far, more like going out in public and taking on different personalities, like the “Stranger Game.”

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I honestly don’t know if I ever could.  I admire those that have the courage to do it though.  I’m not talking dresing up sexy, but pretending I’m a school girl and he’s my teacher….man, I would just crack up.  

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would be horrible at role playing or doing the Stranger Game.  I can’t take anything seriously. 😛

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@MrsDPal811:  bahhahaha! That is so funny!  It’s really cool that you both can connect that way.  One time I just dressed up in sexy stuff and couldnt stop laughing!  The craziest thing we’ve done is buy that whipped body creame from Victoria Secret (which was AWFUL btw). Now don’t get me wrong, we do some great stuff in the act, but our adventure as far as role playing is slim to none. lol

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@MrsDPal811:  Yeah! Or I try to pick him up, however the mood is. You definitely have to “suspend reality”, but it’s really great to keep your “dating” skills fresh. As in, I believe that just because you’re married to someone or have been with someone a long time doesn’t mean that the romance and giddiness has to go away, or that you have to stop seducing your partner. To me, the “Stranger Game” has really helped me in this.

The times I’ve done it, I’ve learned new things about my SO that turn him on, and pretending to be different people can really fun and sexy. You should try it sometime. 🙂

Post # 14
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1975 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

i dont dress up but yes we do. sometimes. we havent in ages. hmmm

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I have a few outfits, but I have not used them in about a year…not sure why…might have to change that tonight…

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