(Closed) Do you and your SO spoon all night?

posted 8 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 17
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

We spoon, but apparently, during the night we separate only because I move A LOT and end up pushing him away with my butt so I can take up the whole bed. That’s what he says anyway. When I wake up in the morning, I’m still the little spoon, so I’m happy!

Post # 18
164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

We stay on our own sides of the bed. This might sound mean, but he tries to cuddle and I ask him to stay on his side. I can not get to sleep with him right up in my space. When its sleep time I need my own space.

Post # 19
2635 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

No.  I cannot stand cuddling/spooning when trying to sleep.  I am a very restless sleeper and toss and turn all night.  Not to mention, DH’s bodyheat would warm me up too much.  I like my surrounding areas like an ice box when I sleep.

Post # 20
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

We never cuddle like that. We kiss good night and sometimes we’ll fall asleep holdling hands, but that’s pretty much the most contact we have during sleeping hours.

One of our dogs sleeps in between us too. I feel like I cuddle more with the dog than with my husband. Our 60 lb dog tries to sleep ON my legs. Not comfortable.

Post # 21
3041 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

We rarely spoon — if we do, its for a minute before bed… But we do wake up holding hands quite often.. Fiance said the other day he woke up to us holding hands & thought it was cute:)

Post # 22
6013 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

oh lordy no!!! I am always too hot. So him being on me all night would just drive me bananas. We do cuddle sometimes a bit before we are actually trying to go to sleep,ya know for some quick pillow talk or whatever. But beyond that, he stays on his side of the bed. Plus we both have our ways of sleeping that work best and spooning wouldn’t really be on either of our lists lol I am a stomach sleeper or a side sleeper and he sleeps in whatever way his body flings him throughout the night.

Post # 23
1719 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

We start off spooning but then end up in every other position possible lol.  We’ve ended up sideways on the bed multiple times.  But we may end up spooning again just depends on how crazy we sleep that night.

Post # 24
15278 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

No way.  I like my space.  I cuddle up with the blanket.

Post # 25
503 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

We usually go to sleep with me on my back, his head on my shoulder, he holds my hand with one hand and has his other arm draped across my stomach. Eventually i get uncomfortable and wake up and roll over, then he rolls over and we spend the rest of the night on our own sides. Also one of our kitties sleeps on my side cuddled up to me and the other sleeps on his side, haha.

Post # 26
249 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016 - Santa Barbara Courthouse

We usually fall asleep spooning or face to face cuddling but we shift pretty soon after that. I’m a stomach sleeper and she is a back sleeper so we usually just cuddle with our legs and feet. No matter what, we’re touching each other in some way.

Post # 27
3354 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We rarely spoon. We also sleep apart. I kick the sheets off in the middle of the night often enough as it is lol

Post # 28
2141 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

We always start out that way (unless it’s hot!), but i move a ton in my sleep, I just roll over repeatedly 

Post # 29
4605 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

No. FH is like a furnace and it’s already hot in our bedroom, so we barely touch each other at night now. 

Post # 30
2755 posts
Sugar bee

@LadyBlackheart:  Pfft, nope. I need space and so does he. I don’t want to be touched while I sleep and will physically push someone away if they try. We usually cuddle a bit before it’s time to Sleep. Sleep time means no touchy time.

Post # 31
1849 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Ughhhh I would melt from the heat… Plus I’m kind of a flailer while getting comfortable in bed. I’m glad he also prefers his own sleep territory, and our king size bed is just the right size for us. 

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