(Closed) Do you and your SO spoon all night?

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Post # 47
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Sugar bee

@LadyBlackheart:  My SO has an extremely high body temp and I can’t handle it. I don’t let him snuggle me at all when we go to bed. Plus, I move around a lot in my sleep so its just easier for him to sleep on the other side of the bed lol

Post # 48
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

NO TOUCHING! haha

Sometimes we’ll fall asleep holding hands, but 90% of the time there’s no contact. Our kitty usually sleeps between our heads (for about 20 minutes before she decides she has something better to do. like sleep on the floor.) He sleeps on his back a lot, so once in awhile I’ll sleep with my head on his chest and he’ll have his arm around me, but that totally doesn’t last all night. It gets too hot and uncomfortable in that position too long. I like to switch positions while I sleep.

Post # 49
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Nope! When we sleep, we need our own space to get optimal shut-eye. Plus, I’m a heavy sleeper while FH is a light sleeper – spooning would never work for us. And that’s okay!

Post # 50
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

We always fall asleep the same way, him on his back with his arm around me and me on my side with my head on his chest, but during the night we both settle into our comfortable sleeping positions. 

Post # 51
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

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@ErinC6:  yesssss! It’s 107 out? Stay on your side, man! 

Post # 52
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No.  This is going to sound bad, but I hate it.  He gets too hot during the night that makes me feel gross, sweaty, and uncomfortable. 

Post # 53
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We cuddle before we sleep, but after goodnight kisses are given we go our separate ways, lol. If it’s cold I might spoon him to steal some body heat (or if I’m just in a really cuddly mood), but the majority of the time I sleep on my stomach… and he’s too warm to have me hanging all over him, anyway. I love when he rolls over and throws his arms around me in the mornings, though. His one arm/hand usually gets stuck in my hair when he tries to put it under my neck, but it’s a small price to pay.

Post # 54
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

That only happened once lol. We actually don’t go to bed at the same time most nights.

Post # 55
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@LadyBlackheart:  The thought of spooning all night makes me sweat, lol. I hate being hot when I sleep and my Fiance is like a heater. We do cuddle and we are always touching (even if it’s just our feet) but we don’t sleep right up next to each other. Furbaby usually wiggles in between us anyway.

Post # 56
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Only a bit, im the little spoon for a moment then i turn around and become the big spoon and then i turn around again, hug my pillow and fall asleep.

Post # 57
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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@Birdee106:  LOL I was just about to say the same thing.  We have a staffie (giant pitt basically) and he will stick his nose in between our shoulders and push us apart to get in the middle.  Our other two dogs are less cuddly but we haven’t made it an entire night spooning since we got the big guy bc he’s such a snuggle hog.

Post # 58
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Busy Beekeeper

In summer, hell no. But in winter more so and even then not for the whole night. But every once in blue yes. 

Post # 59
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

we used to share a tiny twin bed, so we were kinda forced to cuddle all night. once I drooled all over him though… and this was like, a month or two into dating, so boy was I embarrassed!!

now, sometimes we fall asleep spooning, but usually just holding hands or sticking our feet against each other. it’s just more comfy to get my own space, now that we have a bigger bed! he wakes up before me and cuddles me though, so I still wake up in his arms.

Post # 60
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@LadyBlackheart:  we don’t ‘spoon’, per se, because i’m always the big spoon, but i’m smaller than he is. i always fall asleep with my face against his back, though. we always wake up in other positions – the Nyquil ZZZ ‘sleep is a beautiful thing’ commercials remind me of us. lol!

Post # 61
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

No.  DH hates touching in our sleep, so we usually cuddle when we get in bed, I doze off for awhile while he watches TV, then I wakeup, we kiss goodnight, I roll over and go to sleep for good.  I wouldn’t be opposed to more spooning, but we’re both very particular sleepers, so it’s not gonna happen!

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