(Closed) Do you and your SO spoon all night?

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Post # 62
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m the one who sleeps hot.  I can’t stand to cuddle at night. I tell my husband he can sleep next to me, but don’t touch me.  Also he twitches in his sleep and will kick me or whack at me.  Not cool.  🙂

We have falled asleep cuddled up plenty of times, just not for a whole night.  We both like our space.

Post # 63
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

we cuddle, spoon, then go to our own sides of the bed.

i like to sleep on my stomach and Fiance radiates way too much body heat.  it’s nice in winter, but way too hot in the summer.

Post # 64
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

nope, we don’t even sleep touching lol

Post # 65
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Absolutely! We actually enjoy cuddling with each other. On weekends, we’ll lay in bed during the day just to have cuddle time, lol. It’s so comfortablein his arms. I’m sure that will change when we start having kids, so I’ll enjoy it while it lasts.

Post # 66
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: County courthouse

Ugh…i hate spooning. my husband always gets a boner when we do…and it’s really annoying when im trying to go to sleep. any cuddling and he thinks we’re going to have sex….so i have to he careful…no cuddling unless i want sex…or h assumes we will have it. it’s so weird cuz we have plenty of sex…but he’s the type that likes to do it once and then 30 mins later again…and than 30 mins after that again. it’s annoying.

Post # 67
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Nope..I need my space when I sleep! He’s so warm, it’s awfull! I cuddle with my blanket and we both stay on our own sides of the bed! We like it that way. We do hold hands though! 

Post # 68
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Every now and then we get a little bit of cuddle time in but its really not much, 5 minutes at the most. Our pup likes to snuggle her way on up between us and rest her head in between our pillows and the cat likes to sleep wither on my chest or in between my legs so snuggling just doesn’t happen. Plus we both get toooo hooottt. I am a damn furnace at night and Fiance simply cannot handle it. With two adults, a dog and a cat in the bed and me generating enough heat to toast marshmallows…we need our space lol

Post # 69
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Bumble bee

Nah, we definitely don’t fall asleep spooning. He’ll lay on his back and I lay in the nook until I fall asleep and then he shimmies away at some point to put on his CPAP (snoring machine lol) and also because I turn into a hot, fiery furnace.

 

Post # 70
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Busy bee

My SO says that I’m a little heater when I’m asleep and over heat him if we’re spooning lol. I’m a broken sleeper, I wake up every few hours, usually to adjust amd get comfy again, so it wouldn’t really work either way. 

Post # 71
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

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@ErinC6:  hahaha!!

No no and no we do NOT spoon all night. I think there have been 1 or 2 times we’ve been so far past exhausted that we did stay cuddled up for most of the night but usually we’ll cuddle for a bit and eventually roll over. My SO will hold me while I sleep on my side and we can sleep like that for a while but I’m a mover so I NEVER wake up in the same position I fell asleep in!

Post # 72
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Blushing bee

Im what you would call a “free sleeper” if he was that close to me id beat the sh**t out of him…not on purpose.

 

Post # 73
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Sugar bee

@LadyBlackheart:  We used to do that. I don’t know why we stopped…

Post # 74
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Very rarely will we fall asleep spooning.  We both enjoy our space and because of that reason we have a king sized bed.  Sometimes we’ll wake up and spoon.  That’s always nice.

Post # 75
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I’d like to do that all night, but Fiance gets super hot and sweaty. He will do it until he falls and I fall asleep, I know that when he wakes he will throw his arm around me and pull me close. I only know this because he wakes me every time he does it, that or kiss my forehead neck or shoulder to let me know he’s *here*. When I wake up I’d rather have him spooning me then but he’s always across the bed lol. We have spooned all night, depending on the situation, if I’m sad, we are drunk or extremely tired. But if we don’t spoon all night we are touching in some way.

Post # 76
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

We usually start like that, but eventually separate. It doesn’t help having a 40 lb. dog sleeping on top of or between you, either.

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