(Closed) Do you and your SO/FI/Hubby ever sleep alone?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

We don’t have 2 beds right now so there is no option for that really.  I wouldn’t mind it sometime though since he is a blanket stealer despite the fact he says I steal it!

Post # 4
65 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Yeah we do that too. Esp when one of us has really bad GAS and it’s suffocating. 🙂 Also, 2 beds works perfectly if you’re fighting. lol.

Post # 5
2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

My SO is gone 2-3 nights a week so I get the seperation I need.  But he has gone to the guest bed when he hasn’t been feeling well just so that he doesn’t bother me or get me sick.

Post # 6
2144 posts
Buzzing bee

We don’t have two beds, but even if we did, we probably wouldn’t. We were in a LDR for 4 years and slept apart long enough :p Plus neither of us are particularly obnoxious sleepers.

Post # 7
3979 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

The only time we don’t sleep in the same bed is when one of us is really, really sick! He’s a trooper for sleeping with me though because I talk in my sleep AND steal the covers… maybe in 5 years we’ll be sleeping in different beds because of my sleep antics! haha

Post # 8
81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’ve always had a hard time sleeping with other people, even when I was on family vacations when I was younger and had to share a hotel bed with my sisters. We don’t live together yet but when Fiance stays over, I end up moving to the couch a lot of the time because I have such a hard time falling asleep or staying asleep. I’m sure 2 beds will come in handy when we’re married! lol

Post # 9
1585 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I travel for work so much.  I hate every day that I am away from my Fiance.

Post # 10
1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We arent living together right now for some personal reasons before the wedding….but…when we were we would sleep apart quite often, especially in the summer since we dont have air conditioning and right now only have a queen size bed, so he gets real hot and likes to stretch out. Its really no biggy for us..

Post # 11
393 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

we don’t sleep together 5 nights out of the week due to when he works!

Post # 13
1854 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

He is a very light sleeper, so we sleep in the same bed, but the smallest bed we can have is a king size bed (we’re both tiny people!) so sometimes it feels like two beds!
Sometimes when he does manage to get to sleep, he’ll snore so loud that I’ll move into the guest bedroom. That’s rare though, like once/twice a year.

I’ll also switch rooms if we fight and I can’t sleep – I toss and turn when there’s an unresolved issue, but he needs the time to cool down and only talk about it the day after… Fortunately, that happened only twice in three years, we don’t really fight…

Post # 14
3576 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes, we do a lot.  I go to bed early because I get up very early.  Fiance always falls asleep on the sofa and sometimes stays there until morning.  But I’m also a light sleeper, which he is aware of and tried his best to accomodate that.  He’s a good egg.

Post # 15
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I sleep on the couch a couple of nights a week, because sometimes I like to stay up late and he has to go to bed at a reasonable time for work and I don’t want to disturb him. Also recently I’ve had a terrible cough so have slept on my own too.


I really enjoy sharing a bed with him, but when I have naps during the day in bed I do sleep better alone!

Post # 16
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

No we always sleep together unless one of us is really sick, then that person stays on the couch. Neither one of us has bad enough sleep habits, yet anyway

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