(Closed) Do you believe you and your Hubby are Soulmates?

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: Do you believe you and your Hubby are Soulmates?
    Yes, he is my Dream Come True, my soulmate forever : (76 votes)
    44 %
    No, I don't believe in Soulmates, but I love him. : (85 votes)
    49 %
    We are very much in love, I dont think HE is my soulmate though. : (11 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    399 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    My hubby is wonderful and he and I work so perfectly together, but I have never been one to believe in Soul Mates.  I love him deeply, but that is partially because I decided to open myself up to the option of falling in love with him.  It didn’t just happen for us, like a spark, but it is kind of nice knowing that we both consciously and deliberately chose each other.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1854 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I believe that if soulmates existed, how on earth is it possible that he just happens to live so close to you that you actually get to meet him? Too many people, too big of a world for that to happen.

    I believe that you choose who you’re with and could be happy with more than one person… but when you find one you want to commit to, you stop looking!It’s about love, respect and compatibility…

     

    I am very happy I met Fiance because I can’t imagine meeting someone better suited for me.

    Post # 5
    Member
    10218 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2010

    not my hubs or fi yet, but yes i believe he is my soul mate.  i looked for him for years without knowing him.  he is exactly what i dreamed of and prayed for. i remember about 10 years ago i would visit boards, like the wedding channel and read about women who spoke of the love they felt with their fiances and boyfriends and i never knew what any of that was like until i met M.  when he walks through my door my entire heart is right.  i love his laugh his smile, his essence, the way he smells is erotic… he is the person made for me and it’s awesome to be in his presence knowing he’s the one. funny thing is when i was 7 years old in the second grade, i said i would marry somoene with the same first name as M and that person’s last name would begin before mine… guess what M’s initials are MH, his last name begins before mine alphabetically. 

    now i’m pissy especially today because we aren’t engaged… thanks so much for posting this to remind me of who he is and that i am with the one that i was meant for.

    eta he’s the first guy i have ever dated with his first name. i had forgotten about that statement until a few months ago…

    Post # 6
    Member
    156 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    I don’t believe in soul mates.  I think there are people you are more compatible with in life, but none that are “made for you”.  I think relationships take lots of work, and if you find someone you’re willing to work for, it makes it a lot easier.  🙂

    Post # 7
    Member
    1566 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t know what to believe. My logical side wants to say no, because there are billions of people in the world. And if one of the coincidences that brought Fiance and me together didn’t happen, would we really have never found someone to be happy with?

    On the other hand, those coincidences did happen and we did make the choice to be together and to work through numerous challenges rather than just letting go of the relationships. We were born on opposite sides of the world and ended up living in the same dorm, and had to travel to yet another part of the world to realize that we were meant to be together. And I can’t say that all of that just happened without some cosmic forces at play. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    2513 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I think I’m too jaded to believe in “soul mates” lol.. Like the other bees said, I think there are several people out there that, if given the chance to meet, you may have been able to be equally happy with, but when you CHOOSE your SO, you stop looking.

    As I have gotten older, I have come to understand that love is not a feeling. Love is a conscious decision based on facts you know and appreciate about another person. It is teamwork & not always easy. You can have a spark with many people, but you only truly fall in love with a few of them.

     

    Post # 9
    Member
    2408 posts
    Buzzing bee

    i do believe in soulmates and i believe i’ve found mine. everything we’ve done just felt unbelieveably right and not forced. plus i didn’t have to rationalize anything or change things to fit what i thought was “right.” even when we disagree it’s not the end of the world.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1813 posts
    Buzzing bee

    there’s way too much work in a successful marriage for me to just think “meant to be” but I DO think we’ve been blessed with each other!

    Post # 11
    Hostess
    18644 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I believe we are soulmates.  The way that it feels to me is like the movie “What Dreams May Come”.  When we first met, I felt a strange pull towards him like we had known eachother forever.  I know it sounds crazy lol.

    Post # 12
    Member
    6661 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I was going to say no at first, because if I met him at any other point in my life, it may not have worked out between us b/c I might not have appreciated him or vice versa, but now that I think about it that’s not true. We met years ago, had an instant connection but parted ways for several years. Then he came out of nowhere and we’ve been inseperable ever since.

    I think we were meant to be together, but had to experience a lot of things for ourselves first in order to actually realize we were meant for each other.

    Post # 13
    Member
    177 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I definately believe that there was “something” out there that made our paths cross. We met through a mutual friend’s myspace page – Mr. Stix had gone on his friend’s page to see what was new, was browsing through his friends pics, came across mine and messaged me. I of course being who I was demanded to know who he was and why I should be his friend.  What ensued was very sweet, funny and sarcastic banter (right up my alley).  We met face to face about a week after we started emailing and have spent every day together since (this past October was 2 years).  As soon as we started dating all my friends said it was like we were together forever.  We “fell” into place so smoothly with each other.  He finds my quirks adorable and I love that he loves me faults and all.  Just writing this makes me get that goofy smile on my face and I’m looking at the clock to see when he’s getting home (he’s at the mall braving the crowds to get me a little something extra for my stocking).  My mother, before she passed away, always said I’d find someone that would love me for me. I feel that it was her hand that nudged him in my direction.  I get sad sometimes that he never had the chance to meet her but I feel that she knows him and approves completely. So call it fate, soulmates, serendipity – I believe it all!

    Post # 14
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    2513 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    Just to add another little something to this convo.

    I definately believe that our paths crossed for a reason. I believe in God, and I think that He pointed us in the direction of each other…neither one of us has had smooth sailing in past relationships, the people we chose were no good for us, but we truly feel that we couldn’t be luckier at this point.

    Those people in our past help us to fully appreciate each other now at this point in our lives 🙂 I still don’t believe in the term soul-mates though 😉

    Post # 15
    Member
    865 posts
    Busy bee

    im sure my SO is my soulmate but then again when youre as head over heels in love as i am its hard to believe he isnt. I believe in fate and even more i believe in God putting him in my life.

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