(Closed) Do you care if someone has a crush on your SO?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you care if someone is harmlessly crushing on your SO
    yes, it makes me jealous : (36 votes)
    17 %
    yes, it's annoying : (90 votes)
    43 %
    no I don't care : (67 votes)
    32 %
    neutral : (12 votes)
    6 %
    other : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Well, this happens a lot with Fiance because he’s super confident. So at work, the girls that come in are all over it. He literally wears a “man-gagement ring” because HE is tired of telling them he’s engaged.

    I think it’s annoying though, because they’ll STILL pursue it. He’s called me to “drop by” before so this woman would leave him alone. I was like WTF. Creeeeeepy.

    Post # 4
    Member
    4480 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

    I wouldn’t think that was cute; I’d probably slash her tires. (I am, of course, 100% kidding… but I’d be less than excited about it and would be cheering if she quit her job.)

    Good for you for being okay with it! 😉

    Post # 5
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    838 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    aw bless!!!I always take it as a compliment when I find out someone has a crush on Fiance,and I do maybe feel a little growl of “hes mine biatch” but apart from that its funny when were out on a night out,he gets hit on and when he turns girls down,I get the evil eye lol!I just smile and wave like the madagascar penguins lol

    Post # 6
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    5096 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Haha, I kind of like it, as long as it’s nothing serious.  Like, “aw yeah, I got a good one.” 

    Post # 7
    Member
    5572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    This happens sometimes because Fiance is a beer salesman and some of the women/girls that he works with through different accounts can be very forward. I personally find it annoying. Fiance thinks it’s funny, he doesn’t care because he doesn’t have any desire to pursue anything with anyone else (obviously lol).

    I think what bothers me is that these women know about me, he talks about me a lot and calls me his Fiance. I think that when you know a person is in a comitted realationship it’s time to back off.

    Post # 8
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    1480 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I think it’s cute! I agree with kimbo89, take it as a compliment. If your SO is awesome, why wouldn’t other women think so too?

    Post # 9
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    2394 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    I don’t care at all…as long as she admires from afar and keeps her hands off 🙂 lol

    Post # 10
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    5787 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Don’t care, I think its kinda weird/sad when girls chase after guys they know are taken.

    Post # 11
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    3613 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    The crush itself wouldn’t bother me if she kept it to herself, but flirting and cookies and all that would. I expect people to respect my marriage. I would also expect my husband to put them in their place if they don’t. I get guys hitting on me all the time and I do a very good job of making them back the hell off, so it should be no different for my husband in the same position.

    Post # 12
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    1160 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Yea, a bank teller at one of my FI’s banks totally digs him. He said she always blushes and gets flustered when he comes in to deposit $$. Hehe.

    Post # 13
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    838 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @jayce its not just me then!!!lol,it is annoying when they just dont.let.go. when theyre told Fiance is engaged,some girls just do not give it up,and dont see it as any reason to back off. annoying but endearing lol

    Post # 14
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    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    It doesn’t bother me so long as they are respectful of his personal space and our relationship. For all his super good looks he really doesn’t like it when he gets a whole lot of extra attention. He had to get one woman’s boss to move her to a different area b/c she was blatantly coming on to him even after he told her he was not interested, engaged, etc. One woman walked up to him and ran her hands through his hair! Some women have this idea that a man should be flattered if he is being continuously chased but men can be sexually harassed too. 

    Post # 15
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    1927 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    One of the girl in another department where Fiance works likes him. He will go into her office area to drop off paperwork and she comes over to him and talks/flirts with him.

    FI’s dad also works in the same building and I was talking to him one day, the girl came over after I left and asked him if I was his daughter he said “Well sort of, she is Mr.LetsGoPens’s fiance so she is my future daughter in law.” She said “Ohh” went to her desk and didn’t talk to anyone the rest of the day.

    I am not the least bit worried, she is not his type at all!

    Post # 16
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    5388 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    @meliss: I agree!

    @JamaicaBride: I can’t believe that some women can be so bold!

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