(Closed) Do You Care If Your SO Goes To Hooters Without You?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do You Care If Your SO Frequents Hooters Or A Similiar Establishment Without You?
    Nope-- doesn't bother me at all! : (157 votes)
    49 %
    I would prefer it if he wouldnt go, but I wouldn't stop him : (53 votes)
    17 %
    Yes I mind- I don't feel comfortable with it : (31 votes)
    10 %
    Im indifferent .....but bonus points if he brings me leftovers home : (41 votes)
    13 %
    Other- please explain : (6 votes)
    2 %
    Hooters Sucks : (32 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
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    4193 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

    You see more scandalous attire at the beach- I’ve been to Hooters enough to know that’s it’s no big deal.

    Post # 4
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    1729 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    i have NO qualms at all.. he used to go there after work when we 1st started dating with a bunch of friends.. he hasnt been back since but theres not one in our hometown… however i dont care if he did go

     

    Post # 5
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    8042 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Honestly it probably depends what mood I’m in. If i’m in one of my insecure woe is me type moods then I might bitch about it a little bit. Realistically though, I really don’t care. There are hotter and even more scantily clad waitresses at plenty of other establishments. I think that would be silly to be concerned about that sort of thing unless he was a regular patron and the waitress was putting the moves on him or something. I think most waitresses flirt a bit to get tips. It’s not like they’re interested and going to steal your man or whatever.

    Post # 6
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    3625 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    It’s funny that you brought this up as I’ve had this discussion with Darling Husband before when Hooters first moved into the general area (several years ago at least). He’s gone there before with some friends for lunch and didn’t always tell me. In his mind, he didn’t tell me because he didn’t care about the scandalous attire and only went there because his friends wanted to go. So to him, it was no different than going to another restaurant, which is why he didn’t tell me. He hasn’t been there in ages as far as I know, but after going there once or twice with him, I could tell he really wasn’t all that excited by the attire. He checks out more women at the mall that are fit and dressed in pretty, tasteful outfits than the Hooters girls. FWIW, Darling Husband is also not into strippers and nudie bars either.

    So I think it depends on the SO whether it’s a problem or not. Mine isn’t attracted to that kind of look so for him, it really is just about the food (which he’s not really all that into anyway).

    Post # 7
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    9824 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    It’s not a big deal for me, my husband has gone there for a few fantasy football drafts and I rolled my eyes. It’s so cheesy and the food sucks, but if it makes him happy go crazy, kid.

    Post # 8
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    2457 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Nah, I don’t care, because I don’t worry about how my Fiance feels about those chicks, or myself. I know his feelings 🙂 

    Not only that… but have you been to Hooters recently? I don’t think there’s any need for a girl to be jealous unless Hooters makes changes, haha. Last time I went there, I swear I felt like I must be back in the 90’s. 😛

    Post # 9
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    2831 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Since I myslef don’t have hooters (I have bee stings) I would not want my SO to go oogle some girls tatas.

    Post # 11
    Member
    1042 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I wouldn’t mind terribly, although I don’t frequent them. Fiance won’t go to a Hooters though, because he says it, “freaks him out.” So, I guess I don’t really have to worry about it. 

    Post # 12
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    14486 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Wouldnt care… you can see the same revealing clothing walking down the street sometimes.  Heck, when we do see it on the stree, I point out hot women to him to check out with me.

    Post # 13
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    383 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @StephieBee:  Omg YES!  I was just about to write that I don’t even think their outfits are particularly scandalous, in fact to me they really just look dated (hot pants with NYLONS AND SNEAKERS?  wut?!).

    Post # 14
    Member
    9917 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I wouldn’t care if he went, but he wouldn’t…because their food is awful.

    Post # 15
    Hostess
    1427 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Doesn’t bother me. It’s a restaurant establishment. Like @pinkshoes says, how is it any diff from walking around out at the mall and we come across scantily clad women?

    I would think that our marriage is strong and secure enough that Hooters wouldn’t cause much of a discussion or argument.

     

    Post # 16
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    3668 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Wouldn’t bother me.

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