(Closed) Do you consider your SO your best friend…

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

My husband is the person that I am closest to, but I need my girlfriends!  When I haven’t had a girls night out or a marathon catchup session with my best girlfriend I miss it.  So I’m definitely lucky to have more than on best friend (if that’s possible given the definition of best).

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Absolutely! We can’t keep anything from each other so its really a full-reveal sorta relationship (which according to Cosmo is the kiss of death!) and it’s one of the best things about our relationship. No one else compares except family!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Without a doubt!  We tell each other everything, and whenever something happens, he’s the first person I want to tell.  We tease each other that we each need more friends of the same sex so that we don’t have to rely on the other all the time, but we really love it.  I love being able to say that I’m marrying my best friend.

Post # 6
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Helper bee

i do call one of my closest g/fs "best friend," but hubs is definitely my bestest friend. 🙂

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Definitely. 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

he’s definitely my best friend.

Post # 9
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Worker bee

Nope.  Fi and I have had this discussion before and we just don’t classify each other as being a best friend.  My maid of honor is my best friend.  Fi is something more than that.  While our relationship bears some similarities as that of best friends, I think we actualy both made a conscious effort to not call each other by that title.  For both of us, it’s reserved for other people. I don’t know why.  I guess that might be wierd but it is what it is. 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Without a doubt I don’t just consider him my best friend, he is my best friend.  The first time he told me I was his best friend it melted my heart, I always felt it, but sometimes you don’t hear guys actually say it.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

My best friend has been my best friend since I was 9 yrs old. Although we have lived at least 3000 miles away from each other since I was 12, she has always, and will always be my best friend. My boyfriend also has a best friend from high-school (who is, as I type, sleeping in our guest room after we all had a night on the town LOL). We are both honest to a fault with one another but we both understand the importance to each of us of our best friends. I can’t wait to see the two of them standing by us on our wedding day as our Maid/Matron of Honor and best man.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

yes hands down….so much so that a part of me wanted him to come dress shopping with me just b/c I value his opinion so much. 

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

He is definitely my best friend, no question!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Without a doubt and I absolutely love that about us! I am so blessed to be marrying my best friend, soulmate and the love of my life 🙂

Post # 15
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

My Fiance is definitely my best friend, but i also have a couple of girl best friends too.  I can tell him mostly everything, but save the girly stuff for my girls, which I know he appreciates!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

He is my best friend but I have a lot of close friends who I have known much longer. I hope I can maintain all of those friendships. There’s an ease and comfort with people you have know for years and years that you just can’t find anywhere else.

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