(Closed) Do you do separate gifts or joint gifts for in-laws?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 17
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Joint! We usually treat them to dinner or something.

Post # 18
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Now we are married we do joint gifts. I buy the presents from for my family and he buys the ones for his. 

Post # 19
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Joint. It’s way too expensive to give our 3 sets of parents a gift from each of us. that’s 12 gifts!!!

In the beginning he did his normal parent gifts and I would give his parents something small. For mine he just put his name on my gift cause he’s a dude.

Post # 20
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

Joint and we did it before we were married.  After a few years of dating we found it to be too much of a hassle to do it separately.  I would find it odd to give separate gifts once married, with the exception of something like a secret Santa.

Post # 21
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

We do joint gifts for everyone.

Post # 22
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@hspw714:  joint

I dont see the point in seperate gifts

Post # 23
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Joint gifts for everyone and any occasion

Post # 24
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Before we were married we did separate for DH’s family (I don’t know why) and joint for my family. Now we’re going to do everything joint. 🙂

Post # 25
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Bumble bee

We do joint gifts now – sort of like a ‘from our home to yours’ kind of thing.

Post # 26
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

We do joint gifts as well.

Post # 26
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2017

separate. I buy and sign my cards/gifts for my parents and grown kids, he buys signs cards & gifts for his parents and grown kids.

we celebrate christmas apart as well. He goes to his son’s house and the other siblings go. I spend it with my grown kids.

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