(Closed) Do you do your SO/FI/DH's laundry?

posted 4 years ago in Home
  • poll: What's your laundry situation?
    I wash ALL the laundry : (241 votes)
    59 %
    He washes his own, but I still do my own, plus the sheets and towels and what-not : (56 votes)
    14 %
    He washes his, I wash mine and he helps with the joint usage washing responsibilities : (54 votes)
    13 %
    He washes ALL the laundry and I understand that I have the best man who ever lived : (55 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4693 posts
    Honey bee

    We don’t currently live together, but he’s really picky about his laundry. I’m not even allowed to fold it. He’ll probably end up doing at least his, if not all of it. 

    Post # 4
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    2073 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Yep, I do all the laundry in our house. I find doing laundry oddly soothing to my neurotic, slightly compulsive personality. 

    Husband tried once to do it. Bless his heart. He almost ruined a ton of my clothes but thankfully, he was intercepted just in time. Now he knows to just step away from the washing machine. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    4040 posts
    Honey bee

    @jadlnc:  My FI does his laundry and I do my laundry. I usually do the towels, sheets, etc, but it just depends. If he has a few days off in a row, he will wash all the clothes, clean the house and cook 🙂

    My friend’s husband doesn’t do his own laundry and essentially refuses to. She mildly resents him for it. I don’t think it’s fair, but they are making it work I guess.

    Post # 6
    Member
    706 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    DH and I both take turns doing laundry, and its not separate.  We throw everything together.

    Post # 7
    Member
    1307 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Our laundry is separated into categories. My landry room is in the basement so DH will usually trek up amd downstairs and I will organize what needs to go down and put away whay comes up. Except for his stuff…he likes to fold and hang and organize in a particular way (as do I).

    Post # 8
    Member
    4284 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I wash all the laundry. The only time my DH does laundry is when I call and ask him to throw a load of his work clothes in the washer if I am running late or something. That’s the extent of it though.

    Post # 9
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    1408 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I always do the laundry but it’s something I really enjoy doing.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1444 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We each do our own.  I usually do the towels and sheets, but that’s because I have more time than he does.

    Post # 11
    Member
    585 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    We share the responsibility of doing laundry.  If he needs something washed, he’s totally capable of doing it. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    921 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    We both do laundry. I mainly do mine, and he mainly does his, but sometimes we’ll throw a few of the other’s things in too.

    Post # 13
    Member
    135 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Whoever realizes the hamper is full… 

    Post # 14
    Member
    2589 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

    We do a bit of each others! He’s home a lot more because he can work from home, so it’s easier for him to just stick a load in, and when I’m doing Laundry it’s usually a blitz day so I’ll get as much in as I can.

    There are some things of mine he won’t do (delicates, expensive dresses etc), which I’m 100% fine with (he is not a believer in separating colours – although I’ve just about got him trained to at least separate darks and whites, and he’s been a bit more conscientious since he turned one of his t-shirts pink)

    Post # 15
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    2450 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    He does all the laundry. I work overnight shift and am not awake during the hours that our apartment’s laundry rooms are open.

    Post # 16
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    726 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I need a “little bit of everything” category. Sometimes I do his, sometimes he does mine, we just do whatever needs to be done and don’t keep tabs.

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