Post # 1
My FH and I have been together for 2.5 years so our sex life like most has gotten a bit routine. Between the 2 of us there are 4 kids in the house so I am like ALWAYS tired but we still manage to have sex 2-5 times a week depending on the week. Last night we got in our hot tub after all the kids were asleep and the sex was AMAZING it was super intimate and reminded me of when we first started sleeping together. I think I am going to make a more concious effort to keep our sex life less routine. Still gives me chills thinking about last night ;). So my question is how satisfied are you with your sex life?
I’ll go first:
Mine is good but sometimes gets routine but it’s never “bad” sex
Post # 3
I went off bc earlier in the summer, and since then, its been the best its ever been in the 8 years we’ve been together. It may not be as often, but lately, its been much more intimate and intense, and I’ve been loving it 🙂 But, we are fortunate that we always had a pretty good sex life. We’ve tried lots of new things, and aren’t afraid of saying what we like and don’t like. I agree with you, spontaneity and doing things a little different really can ignite the spark all over again 😉
Post # 4
Darling Husband and I have been together for a little over four years, married almost 5 months, and our sex life has always been amazing. I love that he is not afraid to try new things or places. He’s as much as an experimenter as I am and I love that. It’s never gotten and I hope it doesn’t!
Post # 5
I would agree that our sex life can sometimes be routine, but IMO, that isn’t a bad thing. We both still always enjoy it (a lot) and both still feel quite intimate and connected. It’s all about what works for each couple.
Post # 6
My husband & I have been together almost 5 years & married for almost 1 year. Our sex life has always been amazing! Always trying new things/positions & never doing the same thing. I think that keeps it from being routine. Try it out!
Sounds like the hot tub sex was fabulous! 😉 lol
Post # 7
We’re coming up on 3 years next month. The sex always good, but lately I feel like it’s more routine and not happening nearly as frequently as I’d like. We don’t live together and work opposite schedules so I only seem him 2-3 nights a week when I get off work. Not as much opportunity, but I feel like we’re taking advantage of the opportunities we do have.
Post # 8
I work 1st shift…He works 2nd shift. It bites 🙁 I was just thinking how awesome our sex life was when we were in college (which was 2 years ago) Don’t get me wrong its pretty great but routine
Post # 9
Been together for almost 3 years and it’s great 🙂 i think the reason it’s so good is that we don’t live together and we’re both super busy with school that we don’t get to do it as often as we’d like.. once a week is about the norm unless we’re on a break from school then it’s almost everyday ha.. but i feel like not doing it as often keeps it really exciting and almost feels like the first time everytime..
however once we’re married we’ll have to think of way to keep it exciting since we’ll have access to each other anytime we want.
Post # 10
Sometimes good, sometimes routine, sometimes amazing! It’s always worth the effort, although I’ll admit there are times I start out thinking I’d rather be sleeping… lol We continue to surprise ourselves, I think. I hate the routine too, though! Totally agree with making an effort to keep it interesting.