Post # 17
Before the wedding I dreamt about my ex (first love from 15 years ago!) like twice a month. The dreams were always similar that I was leaving my Fiance (now DH) for ex. The dreams were always so vivid. I think deep down I will always have a spot for him in my heart- but life with him wasn’t meant to be. DH makes me happy (most of the time!) 🙂
Post # 18
I do sometimes but it’s never anything romantic or sexual. It’s just about random stuff. I dream about pretty much everyone from my past and present life. Usually much to my dismay.
Post # 19
I had a dream about my ex last night, but not about us being together. In my dream my ex called me drunk, and was asking me all kinds of questions about my fiancÃ©. It was really weird and I felt so strange when I woke up. It’s been over a year since I last talked to him.
Post # 20
A couple of times, but he’s usually “the enemy” in the dream.
In one dream I had sex with my ex but felt very guilty afterwards because I suddenly remembered my fiance. That dream was strange though because characters switched mid dream. 😛
I never dream about my first boyfriend, which I’m thankful for.
Post # 21
@kelly105: yes I’ve had dreams with my ex and when I wake up I’m not happy! haha in my dream he’s trying to get me to cheat on my FI!! it’s been awhile since I’ve had a dream with him tho.. actually from what I remember last time he was in my dreams was before I was even engaged,so I guess he was trying to get me to cheat on my Fiance who was still my Boyfriend or Best Friend at the time
Post # 22
I actually just had a dream about my ex last night. I dreamt that SO and I were on our way to our wedding and we ran into ex’s mom. She invited us to get married in her sun room instead, and for some reason this was a really good idea, so we went back to her house. Once there, ex confronted me and berated me for getting married and not waiting for him to come back to me (mind you, he dumped me!). I went and found my SO and said this was a bad idea and we needed to go back to our real wedding. So weird!
Post # 23
Yes, I must say that I don’t want to be with my ex in any sense. But when I wake up it is a strange feeling. I always feel guilty for having the dream.
I wonder why we still dream about them? Maybe it has something to do with closing the “dating” chapter in our lives. I don’t remember dreaming about him before I got serious with Fiance.
I do wonder if he has the same type of dreams about me.
Post # 24
OMGOSH! Thank god someone else posted that! It happend to me 2x after I got engaged to the love of my life. I dont know why and in the dreams, he ws just around in the dream, we werent dating, but he apologized in one which is a dream haha.
I think we all sort of think of the past subconsciously and think of things we thought we would have had. But bees!! do not regret anything! We said yes to our fiance’s for a reason, they are THE ONES or you shouldnt have said yes! Not being with my ex was the best thing that could have ever happend to me.
Post # 25
This has happened to me a couple times now in the past two weeks. I don’t understand why I suddenly started dreaming about him when we haven’t seen each other in over a year and a half. I love my Fiance and am excited to be marrying him, so it is a bit disturbing when I dream about my ex.
Post # 26
I do, usually when really stressed. I am always unhappy (just like I was in real life!) and usually I am getting with someone else, such as Fiance. Sometimes people I don’t know. Sometimes I get scared he is going to hurt me and it turns into a nightmare. Shudder.
Then I wake up and cuddle Mister extra and am so thankful I have him now.