(Closed) Do you ever dream about your ex?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
808 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Before the wedding I dreamt about my ex (first love from 15 years ago!) like twice a month.  The dreams were always similar that I was leaving my Fiance (now DH) for ex.  The dreams were always so vivid.  I think deep down I will always have a spot for him in my heart- but life with him wasn’t meant to be.  DH makes me happy (most of the time!)  🙂

Post # 18
2977 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I do sometimes but it’s never anything romantic or sexual. It’s just about random stuff. I dream about pretty much everyone from my past and present life. Usually much to my dismay.

Post # 19
2141 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I had a dream about my ex last night, but not about us being together. In my dream my ex called me drunk, and was asking me all kinds of questions about my fiancé. It was really weird and I felt so strange when I woke up. It’s been over a year since I last talked to him.

Post # 20
233 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

A couple of times, but he’s usually “the enemy” in the dream.

In one dream I had sex with my ex but felt very guilty afterwards because I suddenly remembered my fiance.  That dream was strange though because characters switched mid dream.  😛

I never dream about my first boyfriend, which I’m thankful for.

Post # 21
1088 posts
Bumble bee

@kelly105: yes I’ve had dreams with my ex and when I wake up I’m not happy! haha in my dream he’s trying to get me to cheat on my FI!! it’s been awhile since I’ve had a dream with him tho.. actually from what I remember last time he was in my dreams was before I was even engaged,so I guess he was trying to get me to cheat on my Fiance who was still my Boyfriend or Best Friend at the time

Post # 22
1734 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I actually just had a dream about my ex last night. I dreamt that SO and I were on our way to our wedding and we ran into ex’s mom. She invited us to get married in her sun room instead, and for some reason this was a really good idea, so we went back to her house. Once there, ex confronted me and berated me for getting married and not waiting for him to come back to me (mind you, he dumped me!). I went and found my SO and said this was a bad idea and we needed to go back to our real wedding. So weird!

Post # 24
92 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

OMGOSH! Thank god someone else posted that!  It happend to me 2x after I got engaged to the love of my life.  I dont know why and in the dreams, he ws just around in the dream, we werent dating, but he apologized in one which is a dream haha.


I think we all sort of think of the past subconsciously and think of things we thought we would have had.  But bees!! do not regret anything!  We said yes to our fiance’s for a reason, they are THE ONES or you shouldnt have said yes!  Not being with my ex was the best thing that could have ever happend to me.

Post # 25
2849 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

This has happened to me a couple times now in the past two weeks. I don’t understand why I suddenly started dreaming about him when we haven’t seen each other in over a year and a half. I love my Fiance and am excited to be marrying him, so it is a bit disturbing when I dream about my ex. 

Post # 26
689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I do, usually when really stressed. I am always unhappy (just like I was in real life!) and usually I am getting with someone else, such as Fiance. Sometimes people I don’t know. Sometimes I get scared he is going to hurt me and it turns into a nightmare. Shudder.

Then I wake up and cuddle Mister extra and am so thankful I have him now.

The topic ‘Do you ever dream about your ex?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors