(Closed) Do you ever feel like people judge you for waiting?

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 32
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Newbee

I definitely feel like people are a little curious as to why my BF and I have been dating so long and are not engaged yet.  We have been together for about 8 years.

When the questions of “When will you guys at married?” started rolling in, my BF could not believe that anyone would actually ask this so outright.  He couldn’t understand that someone would feel the need to ask that.  This started around 2 years ago.

But I do indeed think that my friends and family will not be very excited at the news of our engagement, whenever it happens.  The expected reaction is more like, “That’s nice, what was the hold up?”

Post # 33
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1113 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Don’t hold onto being mad at him! It’s cool to feel that way and talk about it, but be sure to let it go 😉

I definitely felt like people were judging me. We were together a good 7 yrs before he proposed. I got a lot of “how’s your husband?”s and my mother telling people I was never going to get married because I’m not that type and blahblahblah. Who cares about them! Your relationship is between you and you Fiance and you go at your own speed. Sometimes he slows you down… hahahaha.

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