(Closed) Do you ever feel like you are being ignored?

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 4
Member
1501 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

That happens to me all the time. I start a post and only a few comments. And other ones have so many.

Strange how this happens.

Post # 5
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3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Awww threads move so fast on here sweetie! Dont feel like that!

I used to feel like that, but all I can do is try to help others and hope for the same in return!

And some Bees might just believe in the old saying “If you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all!” and in some of our cases that might be better! =)

Best of luck && happy planning!

Post # 6
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633 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@bestbuddies: I think this happens from time to time and it’s mostly just coincidence. I can see how a post can go really unnoticed if there are a whole bunch of “hot topics” on the boards or if numerous bees all post at the same time and your post gets put to the bottom of the boards.

I also think that sometimes people just don’t know what to say about certain topics other than the regular fluff so they sometimes just don’t write anything at all. It’s all give and take and it has a lot to do with who is on the boards or what you are talking about.

Don’t take it personally, I don’t think you are being ignored on purpose πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@bestbuddies: don’t feel bad, I get that too.  Or they only pick out one or two things and ignore the rest.  I’ve always heard of “Selective hearing”, so I guess it applies to reading, too!

Post # 8
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506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I like you πŸ™‚  I get ignored all the time here and sometimes I think no one comments on pictures of my dress, because everyone hates it πŸ™  I had a thread that never got commented on the other night, and I have one I just put on so far with no replies.  I think a lot of threads require a lot of thought in responding to and sometimes unless it strikes a real chord with someone they read a thread and just pass on commenting on it.  Don’t take it personal I think it happens to a lot of ladies on here.

Post # 9
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

This happens to me all the time! Sometimes I think what I’m saying is the most insightful thing I’ve ever heard then reality is smacked into me when no one responds. Don’t take it personal!

Post # 10
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4324 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@bestbuddies: I like you. πŸ™‚ And that adorable avatar of yours. Don’t worry. Like others have said, these boards do move quickly. Maybe notice the ones that frequently respond to you and start PMing them as “trusted” go-to people.

Post # 11
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2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

OOHHH Pick me! lol Happens ALL the time when I write something really in depth or heart felt.

Post # 12
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3624 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Happens to me too! I start thread and they immediately die. Even if I bump them. Makes it hard to try asking for advice cuz you’re always worried no one will care enough to respond!

I think it happens in waves…

Post # 13
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2018 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Danielle-you are not alone:) I’ve been ignored in my OWN threads. Lol and even worse, I’ll comment on someone else’s and some other bee will say the EXACT same thing 20 minutes later(sometimes even whole phrases are lifted word by word) and she’ll get the credit. WTF? Am I here? I’m sure you feel the same way about not getting responses.

You know what though, I wasn’t even going to complain about it until I saw your thread, so thank you for posting this first so I can vent. I’ll make sure to watch for your threads. Solidarity sister:)

Post # 14
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2871 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I feel that way all the time!  I think everyone feels that way on here at some point.

Post # 16
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3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Oh shucks! Didnt meant to confirm your fear! I wish people were more pleasent around here sometimes myself! =) I think we all need to accept that we all have different tastes/styles and we are only asking for an opinion, not that anyones direct opinion is going to make you darastically change your mind….or maybe it would! SHIT! LOL!

Opinions are like @$$holes…everyone has one; yours/theres just might stink worse than others! LOL

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