Do you ever find other men/women more attractive than your SO?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you find other men/women more attractive than your SO?
    yes : (128 votes)
    69 %
    no : (57 votes)
    31 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1523 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I find Fiance very handsome and attractive, but I’m getting married, not dying! haha I’m just saying that I still have blood running through my veins and finding another person attractive is pretty normal. I woudl never act on my attraction of course.

    Post # 4
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    3176 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Totally. Do I see myself hooking up with any of them? Never. I love FH to death but he’s no (insert hottest actor you can think of) also, I know he thinks there are hotter girls out there, lets face it I don’t look like a Victoria Secret model.

    Post # 5
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    671 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    Unless you’re married to Brad Pitt, I think any girl is going to find someone else more attractive at some point.  But just remember, looks aren’t everything.  And just b/c someone may be more attractive does not mean that you’d ever want to marry them, much less commit adultery/cheat on your SO. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    1016 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    There are definitely men out there who have a va-va-va-voom factor but I feel like I’m a far distant observer when I see them.  Like almost seeing a good looking guy on tv or in a magazine – totally not in my reality anymore!

    (funny thing though – we have been places over the past few months and each gone our separate ways for a while – like at the mall or something – and out of the corner of my eye i’ll see this guy and think – whoa, who is that? and when i look closer it has wound up being DH! i crack myself up everytime and just think – guess i picked the right one for me!!!)

    Laughing

    Post # 7
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    5977 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I think that even if you are married to Brad Pitt, you’re going to find others attractive. But, you’re marrying your significant other for a reason. Yes, someone else might have some great looks, but it’s my husband’s personality and genuine love for me that I also find extremely attractive. He can do things for me that no other can, and that’s why he’s my husband! It doesn’t mean I can’t find someone else physically attractive…but I go home to my husband every night, and that’s all I need!

    Post # 8
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    1556 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I voted no. 

    Obviously, there are men out there that are objectively more attractive than my husband.  But are they more attractive to me?  No.  Why?  Because I don’t have that connection with them I have with him.  They don’t give me that smile he does.  They don’t look at me lovingly like he does.  They are just “men.” They are nothing special, no matter how attractive they might be.  I really don’t too often even notice them.

    When I look at my husband, I really don’t see his “flaws.”  To me, he is the most attractive man in the world.

    Post # 9
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    711 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Its weird. I will see a really attractive guy but when I actually compare him to my husband I’m like, nah hes not as attractive – but I just think thats what happens when you fall in love with someone. Other people are attractive – but just not the way your partner becomes.

    Post # 10
    Member
    708 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    More attractive is a weird way to say it. I definitely think there are guys out there that are super sexy, cute, adorable. They are probably more “attractive” then my Fiance. But not more attractive to me. Otherwise I would still be single

    Post # 11
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    1810 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Of course I find other men attractive, but more attractive than my FH? No. Because my attraction to him isn’t solely physical– it’s so much more than that. So just seeing some random hot guy can’t compare to the attraction I feel for FH.

    Post # 12
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    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I think “attractive” and “attraction” are two different things. Sure there are guys that are more attractive than my Fiance (and girls more attractive than me!) because that is kind of an objective standard of beauty. So I voted yes. But my attraction for them is not higher. 

    Post # 13
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    1585 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    For the most part no… allthough Eric from True Blood I find very sexy for a blond.

    Post # 14
    Member
    759 posts
    Busy bee

    Of course!  I’m in a realtionship but I’m not blind!  🙂  But that doesn’t mean I would hook up with them.  And I’m sure the boy finds other women more attractive than I am and I’m all good with that too.  🙂

    Post # 15
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    168 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Of course I find other men attractive, and I’m sure he finds other women attractive too.  You can admire other paintings besides the one in your living room just as long as you know the one you own looks the best on your wall!

    Post # 16
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    16 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    i think my FH is the most attractive, beautiful, good-looking guy i have ever met!!

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