Do you ever get mad at your SO for something they did in a dream?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

YES!

About 2 years ago I had a very lucid dream of my fiance running off with a fictional coworker named Amy.  She was some hot artist in the game industry, and I was extremely pissed when I woke up.  

Whenever my sweetie works late he teases me that he’s hanging out with Amy.  ๐Ÿ˜€ 

I have had one dream before where I got violent. ๐Ÿ™  I have actually hit him in my sleep.  Poor guy. I felt so horrible. This runs in the family, my mom also flailed around and had given my father some serious bruises.   

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

Hahaha! We JUST had a conversation about this earlier tonight, We are looking into adopting another cat and I had a dream last night in which he said if we were getting the new cat, then we had to get rid of our cat Jack. I was soooo annoyed with him in the dream because NO I would never get rid of Jack…I was actually feeling upset about it after I woke up…but he was already at work lol….and I told him about it when he got home tonight.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

Hahaha, this happens to me ALL the time.  I have a really hard time forgetting dreams in general. If I have a stressful dream, I am in a bad mood all day! Just last night I had a dream that I went to pick up my wedding dress and it was black!

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

I can’t remember if I’ve ever had one of him doing something bad, but bad things happening to him or us. If I have a dream he dies or something, I have the hardest time shaking it, but I don’t get mad at him- more just am surprised he’s alive and feel weird. I’m glad I haven’t had any of him cheating or anything, I can’t imagine how mad I would be when I woke up!

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I woke up one morning thinking he’d cheated on me because of the dream I’d had.  It was awful and I couldn’t shake the feeling for awhile.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2018 - Millenium Biltmore Hotel

Strange that you would post this! This JUST happened to us last week. I had a dream that Mr. G was oogling at a group of other women, and I was peeved at him when I woke up!! I kidded with him all throughout the day, but I think it just became annoying so I stopped. ๐Ÿ™‚

Sometimes dreams feel so real! I can definitely understand where Mrs. Bee is coming from.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think I’ve ever had a dream where he did something bad, but I do have dreams where he is involved in whatever is happening.  I mostly just wake up confused; it takes me awhile to straighten myself out (I’m NOT a morning person) and then I’m fine.  Sometimes I try to ensure that my dream will not become reality by telling him about it and ending with something like, "just so you know, this is NOT okay."  He’s very patient with me! 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

i just had a dream like this last week, my bf and my mom ran off together! but i got my revenge in my dream because i used some of my sweet kickboxing moves to beat the crap out of him!

Post # 11
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Newbee

ha ha ha.  This is such a good post!  My Fiance always have dreams of me cheating on him.  And he wakes up all pouty and says: "guess what you did last night".  ha ha.  And when I have dreams of him, it’s usually me getting mad at him.  Sometimes, so mad that I end up crying or so mad that I kick him out of the bed! 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

YES! I’ve done that… sometimes I also get so upset that I’m crying in my sleep. It’s a very unsettling feeling. When I get upset at him in my dream, it’s usually something he did to betray me. And it does feel super real!

It takes me a while before I feel un-mad at him. hahah! Usually, I just need to be comfronted and consoled to make it all better.  

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

OH MY GOSH, I do this more often than I think I should.  I feel kinda bad for him cause I don’t let go of things well at all.  Poor guy.  Bad thing is, they’ve goten worse since w e got engaged and now we are three months away from the wedding and the dreams are all about how he messes up and/or forgets wedding stuff…YIKES…

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I’ve had many dreams where Fiance cheated on me. Not sure why though because I know that he never would. In my dreams however he has gotten around. It usually puts me in a bad mood all morning and frustrates him a lot! 

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