(Closed) Do you ever get that feeling?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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571 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Maybe try getting involved in some community activities with or without Fiance and make some new friends; it’s hard and takes a few months to really call new people friends but when Fiance and I moved to a new state its what we had to do. I know what you mean about single friends and couple friends…sometimes you feel like everone is busy and you’re all alone. Don’t fret, get out there and try to make more friends! There’s nothing wrong with you, its just human nature for friendships to fade or people to be busy and not have time for us when we need them. Good luck! You can do it!

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I feel exactly the same way. =(

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ScarletBegonia: I don’t think it’s that no one likes you. Honestly, through my life I have had many different types of friends. Some of those friendships last and some don’t. It’s not because we don’t like one another, but more of that our lives have moved in different directions and our friendships fizzled. It happens to everyone.

What I have come to learn over the years is that my family are my best friends. And other than that I have two other girlfriends that I would not be able to live without in my life. Those are the friendships I make honest effort for. The friendships I refuse to let fizzle. My family (FI’s family included) (and two girls that really are part of that family in all honesty) are filled with friends and the most important people in my life. The ones who will always love me and vice versa.

At the same time, we have friends that we see occasionally. Hang out with from time to time. Mostly couples. And some singles. But I don’t take it to heart if we don’t hang out all the time. Or if the single friends don’t invite me out to meet and greet. They’re in a different place in their lives than I am. But when I do go… I make sure to have a good time.

Just be willing to make an effort for the friendships you really want to keep. And don’t get down on yourself.

Chin up buttercup!

Post # 6
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634 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

 *raises hand* il be your friend

Post # 8
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436 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I understand what you’re saying but you’ve just got to remember that there are times when THEY want to do something but YOU’RE busy. It’s all swings and roundabouts.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’ll be friends, too!

you definitely aren’t alone. I think everyone has moments like that, whether they want to admit it or not!

🙂

Post # 10
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773 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: City, State

Yeah, I always had a few good friends adn some acquaintances to hang out with.  I’ve found that after you leave school its really hard to meet new people and find friends.  I’ve found it hard to find people I get along with really well.  Try picking up hobbies (like I joined a vball league which helped).

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@ScarletBegonia: i think and have had this happen over time everyone grows up differently and goes in different directions. And yes you do get that feeling and it also hurts when you have FB and you see all your “single” friends go out but you werent invited. Chin up my love, smile and love life!!

Im currently going through the same feeling as well so if you need to PM me and im happy to listen if you need to talk =)

Post # 12
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429 posts
Helper bee

were your freinds !! calll us ! lol

 

i wish all the bees on this site could hang out and chill… its okay girl every1 feels like that at times. youll meet new  people  that will always want to hang out , out of the blue. xoxo 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

Oh man I definitely feel like this a lot. Especially as the wedding gets nearer. I never get calls or texts telling me about outings that my “friends” are having anymore. It also seems like the more I try to make up my absence to them, the less they care. Oh well guess we aren’t meant to have “friends for life”. 

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