(Closed) Do you ever just want to sit and cry???

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
180 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yes, yes, yes!!!

Yesterday was a doozy.  Everything just feels like a weight.  I can’t wait until the honeymoon to just relax.



Post # 4
7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Me! I’m at the point where I could just crumble and cry my eyes out! I’m seriously done with planning and I just want the day to arrive!

Post # 5
6743 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Yes!  I’m having a rough week!!   

First, I worked Sun so I’m already on a 6-day workweek and I’m exhausted.  To top it off, I had my sister’s bday dinner after work on Mon and 2 mandatory after-work events Tues and Wed so now I’m REALLY exhausted.  And, tonight is a coworkers goodbye happy hour since tomorrow is her last day, so I don’t even get to go home and pass out.  I can’t wait until quitting time tomorrow! 

I’m trying to relocate and can’t find a job in the state I’m moving to and have gotten exceptionally discouraged by this especially today for some reason.  I hate the job I’m working at currently, I hate my commute, I’m dying to move and I feel like it’s never going to happen! 

I can’t decide what I even want for a wedding anymore.  And I’m still kind of technically waiting for a ring even though Fiance and I have started planning, but then put a pause on the planning b/c we both got overwhelmed.  Destination wedding in the islands?  Vineyard wedding?  Backyard wedding?  Elopement?  Ah, where does the money come from for all of the things we need??

I’m late.  My period is all out of whack.  I’m on the pill and last month I got my period out of no where in the middle of the pack.  I called my Dr and the nurse said to just continue with the pack and start a new pack like I normally would.  I don’t remember if I got my period a 2nd time when the pack ended but normally I should be getting it like today and it’s not here.  I know that’s not “very late” or anything, but because of the pill, I’m usually like clockwork, so I’m freaking out a bit.

Fiance is taking the car in for a tuneup today and I’m hoping it will be (a) good to go for some time because I cannot afford a new car anytime soon and (b) not too expensive because this is an expense we’d have to pull out of our savings for and I don’t want to do that with the imminent possibility of a move!  My poor baby, she’s my first car and I’ve had her since HS and I can’t imagine replacing her and I can’t imagine her dying on me! 

Ok, I’ll stop now…


Post # 6
1029 posts
Bumble bee

I had a good cry this weekend when SO was away. I hate being in that empty apartment and I just couldn’t pull it together. It also didn’t help that I rented “The Time Traveler’s Wife” and spent the majority of the day bawling me eyes out over that. haha

Post # 7
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Yep – having a rough week/month/year. I have a lot to be thankful for so I’m holding it together as much as possible but I could definitely use a good ugly cry right about now.

Post # 9
19 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hi Brides to Be !

I have just joined this website. I am getting married on September 29th, I feel like an emotionl wreck! We practised our first dance last night, I got teary, I got teary at the last dress fitting, today I met with the florist for a trial run for the tables and I got a lump in my throat…feeling stresed too and now got a cold sore!! anyone else getting married sept 29th? Hope you are all not emotional wrecks like me! I am English and getting married in the English countryside so I just hope it doesn’t rain! Heres to 2012 brides!

Post # 10
2457 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’ve cried a lot in the past couple weeks!! Haha, and I’m sure that won’t be it. I just can’t wait for all this business to be over, have the wedding, and then ditch reality for adventures in Ireland. 

…Now I know why people choose some sort of beach thing for a honeymoon since it’s super easy to relax after all that craziness. We’ll be driving every other day to a new location and seeing the sites, which I’m sure will be fun, but now I am wishing (just a little) that we chose something where we can just lay back with a drink in hand! Haha 🙂

Post # 11
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Yes! Yesterday was one of the worst days I have had in a long time (see thread here). Today I feel emotionally drained after all the drama and would love to sit and cry somewhere just to get it all out.

Post # 12
263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

If I wasn’t at work I’d be crying right now.

I just found out from the dress shop that my dress was pushed back 6-8 wks in production and “Hopefully” will be in California next week……um it’s that word “hopefully” that makes me want to cry. The dress has been ordered and paid for (in full) since December.

Also, my wax casting for my wedding band had to be sent back to the shop (AGAIN) because it’s wrong and I won’t approve it until it looks right. They’re keeping my engagement ring to make sure the hand-engraved details match up. SOooooo have seen it since July 4. Probably won’t see it until ………welll…..I have no idea. Cry There’s more but those are just the icing on the cake. Gah! I am so over planning.

Post # 14
1556 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Sometimes you just gotta cry, and let it all out!!! 🙂 I have had my share of good cries throughout this whole process.. we are planning a wedding and a move at the same time. I’m moving 10 hours away from my family & the only place I’ve ever lived, so it’s definitely emotional for me as well!

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