Do you ever recover?posted 2 weeks ago in Waiting
- 2 weeks ago
Carob83 : I second the advice previous bees have given, especially therapy. It’s hard to completely heal and trust again when a ex hurts you that deeply. It is a kind of trauma and it tends to pop back up at important life events.
I emphasize strongly. I had a horrible ex who did not want a future with me after 4 years. I’ve done a lot of self-work since then. I’m currently waiting on the official proposal (we picked out the ring together and he has it) and that along with other things going on in my life is increasing my anxiety. His support and understanding helps me stress less on bad days and trust in our plans.