(Closed) Do you ever talk to your SO about wedding bee?

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Post # 16
11469 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Mine knows all about the bees, and he asks me how so and so is doing and whats happening:-) he never reads here, though he teased me that he was going to run the ring by the bees before getting it lol. 

Post # 17
684 posts
Busy bee

All the time! I tell him about he crazy stuff I read or I show him pics of rings I like.  He said I spend too much time on here LOL

Post # 18
1378 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

I do share quite a bit about what is going on.  He has never rolled his eyes or thought I was weird.  

Post # 19
78 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

My SO knows I’ve been stalking this site when I first started getting obsessed with getting engaged. He laughed at me (in a good-hearted way!) when I told him that I had started an account even though we aren’t engaged yet! I even told him when I made one of my first posts about how I’m a “waiting bee” and about how I just can’t wait anymore!! Of course, he teased me a little bit but it was all in good fun.

I’ve gotten good ideas from this site though and I know he appreciates all the good info I get from here!

Post # 20
302 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2015 - Golf Course

Mine knows! Sometimes he asks me what people say when I post a thread, and sometimes I tell him silly stories I hear or about something outlandish someone posted. All in good fun 🙂 

Post # 22
107 posts
Blushing bee

Nope! Never. I’m in the early waiting stage and I think if my SO found out that I created an account here he wouldn’t really know how to take it. Even though I would be very happy to be engaged now we haven’t been together that long and I don’t want to put any(more) pressure on the poor guy! 

Some people browse in private mode to watch porn, others to secretly research wedding stuff. 

Post # 23
1355 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Modern, Classic, Fun

DancinDarlin:  my Fiance will see me on my iPad and will ask, “you buzzing on the bee?” — it’s cute the way he asks that and it makes me laugh. I think he likes how I have “the bee” so I don’t have to ask him a million and one annoying wedding questions….. I have a place to come chat about that stuff. And sometimes I’ll share what other bees talk about, advice they give etc., and one thing He’s said before is “damn these women on here are brutal…..they don’t hold back do they?” Lol. 

Post # 24
5089 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2014

Yes, I do. I most just share the ridiculous or funny posts. Sometimes he’ll see me replying on here and ask about what I’m saying. On occasion he has formed his own response for me to reply to a post.

Post # 25
3586 posts
Sugar bee

I’ve mentioned it to him. Every now and then he will ask if i am talking about something off the site and I’m like are you not listening to me. 

Post # 26
109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

We have a laugh at some of the stuff on here, for sure! 

Post # 27
11519 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

DancinDarlin:  DH rolls his eyes sometimes but he has his hockey boards, I have my bee.  I fondly refer to you as ‘my strangers on the internet’.  I’ve told him many times ‘I asked the strangers on the internet and they think….’ he usually laughs but agrees it can be helpful 🙂

Post # 28
479 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

He knows about the wedding boards because I’m constantly on them but we don’t go into huge detail about it. He knows you can ask questions about wedding related stuff which he liked because we’ve gotten our centerpieces ideas from here but he doesn’t usually care.

Post # 29
449 posts
Helper bee

Our relationship is one of constant teasing. We bonded over giving each other a hard time. I don’t need to give him any more ammunition, haha. So no, my Boyfriend or Best Friend has no idea that I go on the Bee during work, and definitely doesn’t know I am on a list of “waiting” persons and come on here to talk about how badly I want to be engaged. The most he knows is that I’m involved on a discussion board for women who need relationship advice, haha. It was how I explained the friend I met here. If I were engaged and planning my wedding, however, I wouldn’t see any reason not to tell him.

Post # 30
2961 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

I tell him about it if something topical comes up. He just says “You loser, you’re already married!”

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