(Closed) Do you ever wish you had a sexual experience with someone else?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 61
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016 - Our Castle

 

AquamarineQueen:  Ok im on the other side of the fence here and i have alot of emotional baggage..

My Fiance has only been with me sexually and i have been with multiple partners prior to dating Fiance.

You arnt missing out o anything.. as long as you love your partner and are happy with him then thats all you need.. Sex i feel is a fake affection as it only lasts the time your in it.. Due to emotional abuse as a child and teenager the only way i ever felt loved was in a mans arms and couldnt cope with out someone to hold me.. (I was always in relationships and never cheated but relied on these men for the feeling of love and comfort that sex brought) Untill i met my Fiance and i learnt that you can be loved just for you and your company, that i didnt need sex to feel loved.. Its great but i am happy and loved in our relationship and as much as we have talked about possibly swinging later in life to keep everything alive and give him experience without cheating we both arnt looking for other sexual relationships.

Post # 62
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

AquamarineQueen:  I had a one night stand when Fiance (then BF) and I were broken up. So not worth it. Homeboy only lasted a few minutes and I enjoyed very little of it. Meh…

However, I do wish I’d taken things further with a girl I was sort of dating back in high school. While we fooled around, I never performed oral sex on her and now I’m wishing I had, just to try it. I think it’s something I would enjoy doing. Being with Fiance, the only way to experience this would be to have a threesome or something. It’s something we’ve discussed and we have friends who’ve expressed an interest, so it could happen, but not anytime soon, I don’t think. Just a distant fantasy.

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