(Closed) Do you ever wonder if SO/FI/DH might kill you?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you ever wonder if SO/FI/DH might kill you?

    Yes, it's always at the back of my mind.

    Sometimes, usually after watching something scary on tv

    Never!

    I haven't before... but I will now!

    He'd never kill me... but I really hope I never snap and kill him! ;-)

  • Post # 92
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    I’m not worried about Fiance killing me on purpose… I see it being either a texting and driving scenario (He’s REALLY bad about this) orrrr… He’s so much bigger than me that if he rolls on top of me in bed, I can’t move him so I could maybe see him accidentally crushing me in my sleep lol

    Post # 93
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    He told me he wouldn’t hesitate to kill me if I became bitten by a zombie. We actually got into a ridiculous argument about this once (I’m not joking) because if the situation were reversed, I would wait to see if he were infected or could be rehabilitated, see how much of his humanity was still intact, stay by his side until the change, etc. However, he’d chop my head off at the first sign of a scratch.

    But barring a zombie apocolypse, no, it’s never crossed my mind.

    Post # 94
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Hahaha I LOVE Dateline shows. I told SO that if he ever cheats on me/doesn’t want to be with me to PLEASE just divorce me, not kill me lol. It was all in fun, but no, I don’t think he’d actually kill me.

    Post # 95
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Yes, but I think a lot of it stemmed from my work. I was a domestic violence counselor for a while. I went through a really difficult period where I would dream scenarios that my clients told me, except I was in the role of victim and my SO was in the role of the abuser. It was horrible and I woke up crying many nights. It was super hard to tell my SO, because I didn’t want him to think that I was afraid of him. It does cross my mind every so often these days, but I think that it because I still work in an area where there’s a lot of twisted stuff (child abuse). People can seem so normal and functional on the surface and then they do these horrible, depraved things behind closed doors. It makes you wonder how well you really know people! But when I search inside myself and really listen to my heart, I know I am safe and loved by a sane person who would never hurt me, regardless of the situation. 

    Post # 96
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

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    @Regina Phalange:  HAHAHA my SO and I had this same argument. We were watching Walking Dead and he goes, “Yeah, if you were ever zombie infected, I’d totally kill you!” I was like, “Gee. Thanks!” Hahaha, men… 

    Post # 97
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Such a weird post but I must admit that DH and I actually have an agreement that no matter how bad things get we promise not to kill each other.

    I just asked him if he would ever kill me and his response was ” no we have an agreement!”

    Post # 98
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    Blushing bee

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    @Regina Phalange:  This!

    I actually have wondered if my SO would ever kill me, but this is only in the context of if he ever became a zombified and happened to find me very tastey looking, haha! I know that this is completely irrational, but I’m one of those people who watches scary movies when they really shouldn’t… 😛

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