Post # 1
I don’t. Never really felt it was “necessary” I guess is the perfect word I would use. I’ll say things like, “get out of the bathroom I have to poop” but I don’t do the act in front of him. As for the farting, I also just don’t find that very (again) necessary. If one comes out, then whatever I’ll laugh it off, but I don’t go out of my way to fart in front of him.
I’ve had some girlfriends before give me so much crap about this and say that it isn’t true love if you can’t fart in front of your boyfriend/husband but I think that’s ridiculous. I don’t need to fart in front of him to feel like our love is real lol
But I also think it’s funny/cool if some chicks do. It’s just how I was raised I think. My mom never even went out of her way to fart around me and would excuse herself if she did…and we were/are really close. My dad farted in front of me a lot and didn’t care. My husband farts in front of me about every 15 minutes LOL I love it and think it’s hilarious. I envy him for being so carefree.
Post # 3
I don’t know if I would say it isn’t true love if you don’t fart/poop infront of your FI/DH but I do find it weird.
To answer your question, you betcha!! I am not shy in my own home. I don’t normally poop infront of him but on occasion he’ll come into the bathroom while I’m in there. He’s the only person I am 100% comfortable with (as your FI/DH should be). When you’re that comfortable with someone, there are no inhibitions.
Post # 4
I actually asked my Boyfriend or Best Friend at one point to fart and burp more in front of me. This was only a few months in to dating and I needed him to do this to make me more comfortable with doing it myself. Lol, we laugh it off.
Post # 5
Yup. I do both. SOmetimes in the middle of conversation I’ll say “i have to poop. come to the bathroom with me so you can finish telling me the story”
the only thing i won’t do in front of him is take out a tampon. he is very uncomfortable with blood.
Post # 6
I don’t think I could poop with him in the room, I can barely do that when he’s in the next room. Maybe that will come one day…
Post # 7
hahaha this question is awesome. I’ve only just gotta used to peeing infront of him! Farts are funny.
Post # 8
Not if I can help it…but sometimes that’s just not possible!
Post # 9
nope… i dont!
some things he just does not need to see! however.. if it happened accidently then so be it but i would def try not too. not because i am not comfortable… just because!
Post # 10
fart yes, but i only will use the bathroom while he’s in there if he’s in the shower and i really need to pee, lol. and same vice versa
Post # 11
It would be cool to put this to a poll. Since some people, like me, kinda don’t want to admit what I do. haha. Of course, you could probaly guess what I do because of the fact I’m embarrassed by it. LOL
Post # 12
@Meowkers: Lol, we do that too. All that time spent on the crapper is totally wasted. Perfect opportunity to have an in depth conversation with your hunny!
Post # 13
i have farted in front of him, not often. if i say ‘excuse me, i farted’ he laughs and says, ‘that was weak!’ i don’t think he would notice if i didn’t tell him, lol.
as for pooping, ummm, in an ideal world, i would never poop. i dislike poop. i dislike pooping. i don’t know why, but i really have an aversion to it. sure i have pooped while he has been home, but never in the bathroom with me! i never close the door when i pee at home, but i close the door when i have to poop. i prefer to do it while no one else is home. i have gone as far as requesting him to do random things, like return a movie, if i have to poop & i feel like it might be a yucky one! i know, i’m insane!
Post # 14
Umm absolutely NOT!! In my house as a kid we NEVER said the word fart. It was me, my mother and my sister. SO and I do not discuss when we fart or poop. We ask if the other will please leave the bathroom because we need to go to the bathroom. I’ll pee in front of him at any time so he knows that I will need some personal time if he needs to leave. I could not possibly imagine pushing out a number 2 while having a conversation with my SO. Eww!
Post # 15
That’s how I feel. I feel like I’m very comfortable around him a lot and always hanging around the house in ugly sweats with no makeup on, etc… that’s enough for me. I’d like to leave a little bit of sexiness there! Maybe things will change when I have his children.
I also don’t know how I feel yet about him being in the delivery room looking at my vagina when a kid is coming out of it. LOL I agreed he can be in there holding my hand but no peeking. haha I’m completely skeezed out by child birth. He started yelling at me when I first said he can wait in the lobby.
Post # 16
I can barely poop in public bathrooms so I definetely can’t in front of my husband. As for farts, that happens sometimes but not on purpose.