(Closed) Do you follow up with guests who didn’t bring a gift?

posted 12 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 32
2220 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I agree completely with the other bees! By asking if the gift got lost, it may make your guests feel badly if they hadn’t actually given you a present. I would also send a “thanks for making the trek out here” kind of thank you note… if they did send a gift they’ll be thrown off by the lack of “thanks for the [insert cool gift here]” and mention something to you!

All the best!

Post # 33
4194 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Yeah, there is no tactful way to ask. The most you could do is have a mutual friend who is a good actor ask what THEY gave you b/c he/she wasn’t sure if his/her gift was good enough.

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