(Closed) Do you get along with his siblings?

posted 12 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

For the most part,I get along with his sister since she lives in Texas and I live in CA.  We keep in touch mainly through email and talk on the phone every now and then. 

I have to say though he has a wonderful relationship with my two younger siblings (which brings a tear to my eye every).  My 17 year old brother really looks up to him, and seeks his advice often.  My Fiance always looks out for both of them. It’s too adorable.

Post # 18
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Well my future SIL are really close.  In fact, I consider her one of my best friends.  Although, our friendship has been from afar mainly, since she was living in Spain for a while and now she’s back in Texas (and I’m in Seattle). 

However, she can be SUUUUUPER bitchy and controlling so when we’re together she oftentimes makes me REALLY mad and offended!!!!!!  So it’s a hard thing.  And my problem is that I am SOOOOO close with my FI’s family that I feel like I can say things and be part of the inside jokes, which I think most of the family would be okay with, but every now and then I feel like my future SIL gets annoyed with it.

MAJORITY of the time we’re really close.  I guess the minority of the time we’re like, well, sisters!  (sisters have the ups and downs!!!)

Post # 19
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Hahahaha. OMG. She is hilarious!!! Who said "The Circle"? So true. Newcomers need to be nice to siblings, especially sisters. You know we can make your life and brother’s life horrible right? I always think back to my brother’s one Taiwanese Girlfriend. They were suppose to pick me up from junior high school and take me for food. First time meeting her. They were 45 minutes late! Bad joo joo.

I absa-ta-loot-ley get along with his siblings and he is starting to get along with mine -long story. The FI’s middle brother is single, I feel sorry for the new chick that has still yet to come along. She has to mesh with us and his family or she’s a goner. He made the mistake of marrying his beyotch of a exwife and now they are divorced (NOT because of us) so I think he’s learned his lesson. We are very easy going folk. If we don’t like her. SHE has issues.

And I get along really well with my SILs as well. Generally both sides all get along with each other very well. Which is definitely a plus.

Post # 20
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

his siblings are great! they’re older than my Fiance, both married with children, and they’re soooo funny! since the beginning of our relationship they’ve given us great advice! her sister went with me to my first dress fitting and I really care for her, she’s also planning a second bridal shower for me, so i think i’ve been blessed to be (soon) part of this family!

Post # 21
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I have a wonderful relationship with my FI’s brother, I love hanging out with him! Thank God for him because he has been the only real supporter my Fiance & I have had, since my FI’s parents arn’t really on board with us.

Post # 22
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700 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My FI’s family is a bunch of martyrs….

If you know my pain, give me a hug.

I just don’t really care for whiners, and with this family, it’s unavoidable.  Nice people, but can’t see past the bad part of anything and will go as far as to make things up just so they have something to complain about. 

Post # 23
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I kind of get along with his 16 year old sister cause she’s closer to our age but she’s really mature. I mean I like her but she’s still in that stage.

But his 12 year old sister. WHOA! She is one of those "goth" girls. And she stares and you and rolls her eyes at you (which is very annoying)

Post # 24
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

His younger brother can sometimes drives me CRAZY!!! He’s just out of college so he has his moments of maturity but when he wants something his voice gets all high pitched and he complains incessantly until he gets it. Overall we can joke and get along but there are occasions where I honestly want to THROTTLE him!

Post # 25
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

He has one brother. He’s fine. He’s a nice guy but we don’t have much in common. He and his wife live in FI’s home state. I think if anything I get upset at the fact that he does not call or come to visit Fiance very much (although I will say that he doesn’t call their parents either). Fiance doesn’t think anything of it, but I guess I am used to seeing siblings be much closer than the two of them are. I don’t have siblings, so I guess my perspective is off? Anyway, the few times we do see each other he’s a nice guy, but we’re just from totally different worlds. 

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