(Closed) Do you get butterflies with FI???

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you get butterflies seeing your FI/husband after work?
    Yes : (108 votes)
    47 %
    No : (123 votes)
    53 %
  • Post # 3
    429 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I don’t all the time, but sometimes if i havent seen him in a while, i’ll definitely get butterflies! or if he’ll say something sweet or kiss me, i always get butterflies!

    Post # 4
    2202 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think it depends oN how long you’ve been together? Ive been with my husband for 7 years, he works out of town were long distance and I don’t ever get butterflies, haven’t since maybe year 2? 


    Post # 5
    2145 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Yup. We’ve been together for 9 years & I still get butterflies when he does/says something romantic or sweet, or when I think about our future :). I don’t get butterflies as often from regular kisses, though. I guess that one faded with time for us. 

    ETA: I don’t think that there is a ‘right’ way to feel about your man. Some people get butterflies, some don’t. I think it has more to do with individual personality. Are you less of a romantic? More of a romantic? I really don’t see it being a ‘problem’ if you’re not feeling butterflies anymore! 

    Post # 7
    825 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @hollyberry4:  I still do! FI and I have been living together for a year and together for two and I still get excited to see him every day! He just went into work this afternoon and will be home around 11 and I still get so impatient just watching the clock and missing him and waiting for him to get home. It’s like this every day with us ;P

    Post # 8
    398 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I don’t get them all the time but I think I do get waves of butterflies at certain times throughout the week/month/year..


    I don’t think you should worry about not getting butterflies though! I would say maybe it just comes down to a personality thing, like the way you naturally think/reason/feel etc

    Post # 10
    255 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    I don’t get butterflies in anticipation of seeing him (been together 5 years), but when he gets home I’m always happy to see him and give him kisses because I haven’t seen him all day. Every couple is diffierent, don’t stress over it

    Post # 11
    9237 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    Nope.  I am totally comfortable with him so I don’t get nervous / butterflies.  We’ve been together for almost 13 years though.  I DO feel happy anticipation when I’m on my way home, cause I’m always so happy and excited to see him even after all this time!

    Post # 12
    5014 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Every day when he comes home from work? No. But when he is sweet and hugs me or kisses my neck or talks about our future? Yes!

    Post # 13
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We’ve been together for 5 years and lived together for four, and I don’t get butterflies when I see him after work, but I’m always happy to see him. I work 12 hr shifts and usually don’t get a chance to  talk or text him during the day, which gives me a chance to ‘miss’ him. And after a Particularly bad day, just seeing him makes my world all right and good again.

    Post # 14
    1364 posts
    Bumble bee

    I do! When I am walking down the hall towards our place, or for no particular reason, even just looking at him sometimes, and we’ve been together over 6 years, living together for 2. I hope I never stop getting butterflies 🙂

    Post # 15
    1082 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Not usually coming home from work but I still do get them when he is being especially sweet!

    Post # 16
    8994 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I definitely get butterflies.

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