(Closed) Do you get butterflies with FI???

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you get butterflies seeing your FI/husband after work?

    Yes

    No

  • Post # 17
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    To me, butterflies means a mixture of excitement and nervousness. I’m glad I don’t get butterflies, because I don’t want to be nervous about meeting Fiance, just happy!

    Post # 18
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @hollyberry4:  Yeah especially if I haven’t seen him in a while (we are LDR), or even if I have seen him but we have a hot date or are going to spend some real quality time. Before we were LDR I used to get them pretty much at least once a week.

    Post # 19
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

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    @everyheart:  haha yes.  i completely agree.  I know I’ll probably have butterflies on our wedding day- and he has said he had butterflies when he proposed.  On a regular basis? Nope. There is definintely a difference between being happy, and being excited/nervous.

    Post # 20
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Yes, even after 23 years. It’s the little things that do it for me, holding my hand, kissing me across the restaurant table, and more. That gives me the butterflies.

    Post # 21
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    No butterflies just coming home from work but then again, I work less than 3 minutes from the office so I don’t even have time to think about it!

    I will say that I was lustily checking his body out the other day (particularly his ass) when he was doing some work around the house. That’s not butterflies though, that’s just being a horndog. ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 22
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I equate butterflies as feeling nervous. I’m so excited and happy to see him everyday, but were super comfortable with each other, so I wouldn’t call it butterflies. I don’t think that’s a bad thing.

    Post # 23
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    My husband isn’t very romantic, so when he does something sweet, it’s really special and I will. And sometimes I’ll get really excited for him to come home. But not all the time and I don’t think that’s a big deal. I’ve never been a huge butterflies person anyway.  

    Post # 24
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    @hollyberry4:  I do ๐Ÿ™‚ sometimes, when I’m at work, and his picture pops up on my computer slideshow, my tummy flip flops so hard it takes my breath away! I’ve never had this feeling before about someone and I pray it lasts FOREVER! And, my hunch tells me it might ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    but I do agree with a PP that it’s not a “right” or “wrong” kind of indicator of your relationship! Everyone processes love and romance differently! 

    Post # 25
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @hollyberry4:  I dont on the way home like ever but I also get home before him. I dont think I get butterflies at all but I do get really excited when he gets home. I always meet him at the door when he gets in to get a kiss! ๐Ÿ™‚ We have been together 5 years and living together 2 years.

    Post # 26
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I do not and haven’t in a long time. There is definitely nothing to be worried about if you don’t get them. Feeling butterflies is no indication of love at all.

    Post # 27
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    My first marriage, I certainly had “butterflies” the whole time whenever we met up, or as KT Oslin sang so eloquently in her song “Do You”

    Do you still get a thrill when you se me comin’ up the hill?

    Honey, now do ya?

    Do ya whisper my name just to bring a little comfort to ya?

    Do ya?

    Do ya still like the feel of my body lyin’ next to ya?

    Well, I guess what I’m askin’ Do you still love me?

    Great tune…

    With Mr TTR the “butterflies” are different.  I get them, but not in the same way.

    Lol, what I get more often than not with Mr TTR is just a warm cozy feeling of know all is right in the world… and a silly smirk on my face (Mr TTR makes me laugh every.single.day) in that I know and I am secure (a BIG deal after living in such a precarious relationship as my first marriage)

     

    Post # 28
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    Blushing bee

    I am usually last to get home (he leaves after me and gets home around 3 hours earlier) so no .. by the time I get home I am buggered.

    I think its normal for the butterflies to go away, they make me feel nervous any way haha I will only ever get them if I havent seen him for a few days and have been at home by myself.

    So tonight after not seeing him for 3 days as he has been away .. then yes I may get butterflies.

    Post # 29
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    Worker bee

    I get butterflies regularly, but not every day. We have been together for 9 years and spend about 7 hours together every day. 

    Post # 30
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    We’ve been together for 6 years and I still do! However I agree with the pp who said it’s not necessarily a problem if you don’t

    Post # 31
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Not all the time, but every now and then when he’s being extra sweet or has planned something special. He’s not an overly romantic kinda guy, but when he is being sweet and doesn’t even know it….. Those are the best moments. 

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