(Closed) Do you get ‘IT’ enough?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you get IT enough?
    I get it tooooo much : (13 votes)
    12 %
    I'm a lucky thing, I get it the right amount : (40 votes)
    38 %
    I get it a little less than I want but I'm ok with that : (24 votes)
    23 %
    Hell no I don't get enough, gimme more! : (28 votes)
    27 %
  • Post # 3
    9687 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I voted hell yes!  I’m deliriously happy with our sex life.  I don’t think the thing about a man expressing his feelings makes his sex drive go down is true at all, at least not for us it’s not.  My Fiance is very communicative and expressive about his feelings (of love and adoration for me ! ;)) and has just as high a sex drive as I do, which is very high! 

    We joke about how horny we always are for each other and I hope we always stay like this.  We love long weekends, like the one we just had, because it gives us more time for sex.

    Morning sex, early naptime sex, late afternoon sex, sex before we leave the house to go anywhere (even before church sometimes, haha), and then our usual nightime-sleep sex.  It’s really amazing we got so much yard work done this past weekend. 


    Post # 4
    4275 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    The right amount for us, whatever the right amount is anyway…

    Post # 5
    3452 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We have quite a bit.  We both have high sex drives.  His may be a tad higher than mine, but not by far. 

    Post # 6
    4327 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 1992

    @Sunfire:  I hate you right now. 😉

    Post # 8
    1278 posts
    Bumble bee

    Nope.  But we are LDR, and that is the reason for it!  But we can knock it out 2-5 times in a weekend to make up for lost time…

    Post # 9
    130 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    My drive is higher than SO’s but we meet in the middle which is good enough for me!  We average out to 14-16 days per month, and every so often we’ll have second and third rounds.  Yay for long weekends!!  😉

    Post # 10
    214 posts
    Helper bee

    >_< nope.  We actually have had sex twice this month!  Before that, it had been about two/ verging on three weeks.  And before that, it had been almost two months.  It typically ends up being about once a month- as in uhh, I think I’m gonna get my period in like, a week.  If we wanna have sex, we should probably do it now. We’re both busy, I have a job as a server so my schedule is not the neat and convenient 8am-5pm like his, and he has a bad knee which makes a lot of positions uncomfortable for him (and I haven’t been on top very often so I haven’t really gotten good at it so it isn’t as good so we don’t do it like that very often… it’s kinda a cycle -_-) but we’re working on it…

    Post # 11
    902 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Lately its been too much! lol

    I don’t know what he ate or whatnot but he has been in the mood DAILY and my poor cooter needs a break because he tears it up (but in a good way haha).

    I have to be careful with sex now because I had a vaginal hysterectomy about 5 months ago and if he gets alittle too excited OOWWWIIEEE hahaha

    Post # 12
    5662 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @Koi Fishie:  Haha the period thing totally happens at our house

    Frankly we are just lazy and prefer to have sex on weekends so we don’t get much on a weekly basis. We used to have sex multiple times a week, but we are both lazy about it so we are both fine with it. I think we both would like to be having a bit more though, it’s good for our relationship and we seem to get along better the more sex we have!

    Post # 14
    926 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Frankly I think we both prefer it to be intense and energetic.  So when we’re sleepy or just physically tired, it’s hard to get revved up.

    We need to work on that more.  With that said, we’re pretty open about it and there’s a LOT of physical touching (cuddling, kissing, butt/boob grabbing, junk-grabbing) in general.  So, although I’d like it more, I don’t worry too much about the state of our relationship at this point. 

    Post # 15
    509 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Soon2BeeMrsG:  Umm… HELL NO! =/ I’m incredibly unsatisfied in that category, he knows, doesn’t care. He says that sex can dull a relationship if you do it too much. No sex can dull a relationship if you don’t do it enough or at all. Just sayin’.

    I second @JulesSchnooks comment to @Sunfire‘s response on the OP. Except that I don’t hate you, I despise you right now. Lol.



    Post # 16
    1160 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    He would be thrilled if he never had to have sex with me again. Cry

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