Do you get jealous of hot/beautiful women?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What would you do if a beautiful woman walked into a party being thrown by your friend?
    Instant confidence hit, green with envy! You hate her. Glare at your SO and let him know what's up. : (13 votes)
    8 %
    Feel a little intimidated, but it's nothing another drink won't cure. : (36 votes)
    22 %
    Glance at her like everyone else, note her appearance, and move on. : (84 votes)
    52 %
    Indifference - I don't care! : (26 votes)
    16 %
    Other: Explain! : (4 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    1458 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    Call me vain, but when I’m in a situation where I am jealous of a woman, I remember that there are always going to be people out there who are much prettier, funnier, sexier, etc. than me, the same way that I am prettier, funnier, sexier, etc. than some other women.  Especially if I was there with my fiance, I wouldn’t really worry about her at all. I’m there with the guy who pledged to spend the rest of his life with me!

    Post # 4
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    825 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’m confident enough in myself where I could care less….I’d say good for her!

    Post # 6
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    6661 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I would notice her, but not be bothered by her presence. I live in NYC which is filled with beautiful people and honestly at our age I feel like we are ‘over’ being jealous of good looking people. I’m more inclined to feel inferior if other women are dressed better than me than if they are prettier. And I would never be worried about what’s going on in my DH’s head, he knows where his bread is buttered 😉

    Post # 7
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    2237 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Ticktock: But are your friends in steady relationships?  A fear of being at a party with more attractive women then you would make sense if you were trying to pick up/impress the single guys there.  But if you’re there with your SO, why would you care?

    Post # 7
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Good for her – it wouldn’t bother me in the slightest!  I have no doubt that my Darling Husband has no desire to be with anyone but me so why should I care if there is another attractive woman around.  My Darling Husband finds me absolutely gorgeous (even when I don’t always think so)!

    Post # 9
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    604 posts
    Busy bee

    Def. not. I will always say I love that on her or I want same outfit.  I am by no way a model, but the other day I was dressed up for an interview at a law firm and this one secretary she was a bit short and a little heavy just kept shooting glances over at me. I was sitting there waiting and I could tell that she didn’t like something about me. I walked out of the room in which the interview was being held and I really wanted to know if it was my imagination or what. I was very nice to her when I first came in so I figured that she was just curious. I looked out the corner of my eye and sure enough this girl (she was young about my age) stared at me as I walked out. Talk about a bit jealous lol It seems I always have that effect on other women. I had a roommate in college that hated me because I liked to dress nicely for whatever it was and she wasn’t a great dresser. I came to my room one day and she was talking about me very sad. lol

    Post # 10
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    111 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I like looking at beautiful women. Who doesn’t? I wouldn’t be jealous, but I might stare a bit.

    Post # 11
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    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Haha, I check out beautiful women more than my husband does. What can I say – I appreciate beauty as much has he does, but he’s not the kind of guy to “check out” a woman, it makes him feel disrespectful.

    Post # 12
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    542 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Maybe I am just arrogant (LOL) but usually I’ll just keep in mind that I am the hottest girl there. There may be a girl who is skinnier or whatever, but usually I am one of the hottest (gosh I sound like such a bi***…hahaha) women there anyway. It’s how I keep from getting insecure. And at last year’s Halloween party, I got voted sexiest costume, so I have to hope I am at least somewhat right! 😀

    Post # 13
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    2237 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Ticktock: They’re married and they’re upset over the idea that they’re husband might look at another woman????  Life in general must be pretty stressful if the prospect of attractive women being around gets them upset.

    Post # 14
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    756 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I do not worry about my Fiance looking at other women, and I don’t often feel jealous in that sense — he loves me, he’s marrying me, he thinks my body is hot even if I don’t.

    But in general, beautiful women intimidate the hell out of me.  I’m short, chubby, and not exceptionally pretty, and I just can’t imagine what it must be like to be that beautiful and know that you are.  My Fiance and I used to work with a girl whom I thought was the most beautiful woman I’d ever seen, and even though she was extremely nice, I had trouble feeling comfortable with myself around her.

    Post # 15
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    2742 posts
    Sugar bee

    @moderndaisy: A reply after my own heart. Sitting on the subway, I find that there are so many beautiful ladies on there. I spend my time looking at their clothes though and thinking to myself how come I don’t know how to mix colors well. I also envy their shoes since I am a shoe-a-holic. Back to the situation at hand, I probably would roll my eyes with a friend if I have a good friend there, all in good fun. I wouldn’t be jealous or anything. And I’m sure most guys check women out, I think my guy is just VERY GOOD at it because in all these years, I’ve never caught him!!

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