(Closed) Do you get jealous when others flirt with your SO?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you get jealous when someone flirts with your SO
    Not at all, its funny! : (32 votes)
    21 %
    It depends on the level of flirtation : (62 votes)
    41 %
    Not if I don't see them as a threat : (25 votes)
    16 %
    Heck yes! MINE! : (34 votes)
    22 %
  • Post # 47
    Hostess
    2555 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Nope — he sleeps next to me at night!  I see flirting as generally harmless.  

    Post # 48
    Member
    3415 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

    One night Fiance and I were at a bar watching my friends band play.  He is a smoker and went outside, I stayed inside getting us another drink.  When he came back I handed him my drink and said I have to go to the bathroom.  When I came back there was a girl flirting with him I just hung back watching her and seeing what she did.  My Fiance then handed me my drink and said “This is my FI” random girl looks me up and down and says “Oh, your man here is HOT.” I smiled and said “Yeah I know.” After that she kept trying to talk to him, telling me that if I ever got tired of him I should have him call her etc.  I just played it cool.  At one point I said “Trust me if I decided to leave him, he’s all yours”.  I think that threw her off because she kind of looked at me wide eyed and blinked.  Then her friend came and got her and they left.  My Fiance asked me why I said that to her and I said because I’m not getting rid of you but IF we did break up you can go straight to her if you want.  I wasn’t threatened at all.  I found it kind of funny that some drunk girl thought she could get under my skin by persistently telling me how hot my Fiance is.  DUH I know he’s gorgeous I’m with him, and no your agressiveness does not intimidate me.  We saw her a few months later at an outdoor event that again my friends band played at.  She just kept looking at him and I finally pointed her out to my Fiance “Hey look honey, there’s your girlfriend.”

     

    Post # 49
    Member
    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2008

    For me, if it’s a girl just eyeing him or trying to flirt it doesn’t bother me since usually I look at it like I can’t really blame them for it. But I’ve had a girl send him naked pics before, and that was not fine with me at all. So it depends on how far the flirtation goes. But usually, I don’t consider myself a jealous person.

    Post # 51
    Member
    4523 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @SweetartMD:  hahahaha I’ll be honest, I’m kind of looking forward to the game on Thursday.  There’s a 50% chance it will be cancelled (again) due to weather, and I’m hoping it doesnt!

    Post # 52
    Member
    2755 posts
    Sugar bee

    No, not at all. Usually we end up sizing her up and trying to determine if she’d be willing to come home with both of us 😉

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