Post # 46
For me it would be a must. We are engaged but he has gone to Vegas without me and I am looking forward to being away with either my sister or my kids by myself. He can do his own thing sometimes and so can I and I won’t have it any other way.
Post # 47
I agree that there is no right or wrong answer and your friends shouldn’t be bothered by it.
I do miss fi when we are away from each other for more than few days, plus we don’t live together yet, so I get plenty of alone time and if I’m going somewhere for a few days, chances are it is something he would enjoy too. Plus Fi has more vacation leave them me, although think we accrue it at the same rate, I just use mine more.