(Closed) Do you go out clubbing with just you and your SO?

posted 5 years ago in 20 Something
  • poll: Do you go out clubbing with just your SO and yourself?

    Yes - and I love it!

    Yes - but I prefer going with other people

    No - I wish we did though

    No - I would prefer not to go with my SO

    I don't enjoy going out clubbing

  • Post # 16
    2675 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

    I’ve never liked clubs or dancing so I didn’t do that much when I was younger & certainly don’t do it now haha! We do frequent bars, play pool, and things like that, but I think that’s way different than “clubbing.”

    Post # 17
    2667 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    My Fiance has never enjoyed clubbing and I found it lost its appeal when I was about 20 (the legal drinking age here is 18). We will even avoid going clubbing with our friends at times because we just aren’t in the mood. We do, however, enjoy going to bars and pubs together – just us.

    Post # 18
    585 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2017

    I really like dancing, but I hate clubs. We’re in our mid-to-late 20s and in the US and have never been to a club together. I’ve only been to a club a handful of times when I was in my late teens and early 20s, but never enjoyed it.

    Post # 19
    3606 posts
    Sugar bee

    If it’s just the two of us, we go to a restaurant or lounge or wine bar – somewhere where we can actually enjoy being together and talk. I would be more likely to go to a club in a group, either with a group of girlfriends or with a mixed group of guys and girls (including my Fiance, of course). We’ve each been to a club maybe like 5x in our lives though, it’s just not for us.

    Post # 20
    663 posts
    Busy bee

    I love it! I wish we could do it more but he has to go to bed super early for work and never has weekends off. I like going to clubs with friends but then grimy guys always try to dance with me which is creepy and ruins the whole night. 

    Post # 21
    727 posts
    Busy bee

    We don’t really go clubbing but we go out to bars together a lot & just drink & chill. More often than not our friends go with us but its just us sometimes too. No kids, college, work, & wedding planning means we spend more time in bars than we probably should lol

    Post # 22
    1246 posts
    Bumble bee

    Our city has one “night club” which all college students, but there is a huge bar scene. We tend to only go to bars with other people though–otherwise, we are content to stay in with a bottle of wine, a six pack, and some Netflix 🙂

    Post # 23
    108 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    We don’t often go out, but when we go out with friends we tend to ‘escape’ off to our favourite bar/club just the two of us and we have more fun that way, theres always too much drama on nights out so it’s nice when its just the two of us drinking and boogying the night away!

    Post # 24
    1824 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I have not been to dance type clubs very often, but when I have it has been with a group of girls or a mixed group of friends, usually for a special occassion (someone’s birthday, friends home for holidays, etc).  My husband and I do go to pub type bars together quite often.  We really only dance at wedding type events.  Although, my cousin is a dj at a local dance club and he keeps trying to convince us to come out!  We may check it out eventually.  For what it’s worth, I am 31 and my husband is 26.

    Post # 25
    346 posts
    Helper bee

    Clubbing, bars, music festivals, concerts, raves you name it we do it both together and with friends. We don’t go clubbing as much because I like the VIP section (and this gets pricey) with just us two. We’re both in our late twenties and still go out every opportunity we get. I usually encourage more “dancey” environments while my Fiance like the “hanging out” vibe. As far as I’m concerned we aren’t giving up our craziness until we have kids.

    Post # 26
    899 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I’ve never been to a club and highly doubt I ever will. SO has never been to a club either. I thought that’s a place you go, like a bar, to meet other singles. It’s not my thing at all (none of my friend have ever gone clubbing either), so I just find it weird when people go period!

    Post # 27
    55 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    Nope, we are both 23 turning 24 and to be honest are probably old people at heart! Or maybe just nerdy. I don’t know. Usually we’re in bed by like 10 at the latest and up really early. Having said that we like having LAN parties… which is kind of the direct opposite to clubbing in a way. Some of my friends like to go clubbing and that’s totally fine by me, I just don’t go along with them. 

    Post # 28
    2622 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2017 - Hogarths, Solihull

    We went clubbing when we were at Uni together, but that was usually with a group of friends.

    Honestly, it’s too much effort now we aren’t at Uni! Nearest clubs are 8 miles away, which means a £20 taxi there and £30 back…

    We’d rather get takeout and stay in playing video games or binge watching TV series. We’re super lame haha

    I’m 24 and he’s 25.

    Post # 29
    479 posts
    Helper bee

    Neither of us are interested in clubbing exactly, but I said yes, because we often go out to bars just the two of us. We’re pretty antisocial about it too – we keep to ourselves and hardly ever talk to anyone else. 

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