(Closed) Do you go to bed together/at the same time?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you go to bed together?
    Yes. : (226 votes)
    64 %
    No. : (126 votes)
    36 %
  • Post # 106
    Member
    146 posts
    Blushing bee

    We almost never go to bed at the same time.  My SO has PTSD though, so he more or less hates sleeping.  Usually he stays up super late until he’s totally zonked out then he’ll come in (long after I’m asleep) and I almost always wake up without him in bed because he often wakes up around 4 and moves back out into the living room to watch TV. 

    It often bums me out to go without him or wake up without him there, but it’s a bigger issue that needs to be resolved unfortunately.  It’s what he needs so I deal with it. 

     

     

    Post # 107
    Member
    3903 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2017

    About 90% of the time yes we do. It’s quite important to both of us, neither likes to go to bed without the other. I had to work nights for 7 months over a year ago and we were both so miserable, cause he works mon-fri 9-5 office job and I worked night shift and lots of weekend at that old nursing job. We both hated it a lot. 

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