- 4 years ago
We almost never go to bed at the same time. My SO has PTSD though, so he more or less hates sleeping. Usually he stays up super late until he’s totally zonked out then he’ll come in (long after I’m asleep) and I almost always wake up without him in bed because he often wakes up around 4 and moves back out into the living room to watch TV.
It often bums me out to go without him or wake up without him there, but it’s a bigger issue that needs to be resolved unfortunately. It’s what he needs so I deal with it.