(Closed) Do you go to the bathroom as a group with other women?

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: I go to the bathroom:
    By myself, unless someone else coincidentally needs to pee just when I do : (135 votes)
    68 %
    With the accompaniment of certain friends : (28 votes)
    14 %
    With any woman I consider may be a potential friend : (16 votes)
    8 %
    AND I would be offended if someone I thought was a friend didn't accompany me : (4 votes)
    2 %
    I have a bladder of steel! : (17 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I just go by myself when I need to go.. who needs to socialize in the bathroom anyways? Reminds me of my middle school days…

    Post # 4
    4439 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    @joya_aspera:  I take a friend to the bathroom 1) In gym class because I don’t want to walk in alone lol (ok maybe that one is weird) and 2) when I’m at the club with a friend and neither one of us wants to be left alone to be creeped on – plus it would be near impossible to find each other again.

    Other than that, no I can find the bathroom on my own 🙂

    Post # 5
    1373 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I hate it when friends follow me to the bathroom because I don’t like people listening to me pee. And the ones that try to follow me into the stall get a look of death!

    Post # 6
    5189 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I’m bladder shy and hate when people follow me to the bathroom. I have one friend who talks through the stalls and it drives me bonkers. Give a sista some privacy dammit!

    Post # 7
    3552 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @worldtraveler:  Wait, people following you into the stall is a thing?! Oh hell no that would not fly for me.

    I think the only person I go to the bathroom with is my mom and it’s usually like we’re out somewhere and we’re near the bathroom now, so go if you need to. I hate when other people are socializing in the bathroom, I just want to do my business and get out, I don’t want to eavesdrop on your conversation.

    Post # 8
    9687 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013


    Like when I went out to the bar in college with friends usually one of us would go with the other either for the sake of walking to look around or just a change of scenery (with the purpose of checking out the cute guys on the way).  Usually if we were at a bar with a big group some of us would still go together just to talk or keep company while waiting.  We would go together if we were at a bar without seating and didn’t want to be left alone.

    There was one bar in college I went to that had one ladies room and 2 toilets (no divider) in it! 

    Otherwise I would still go if I had to go the bathroom or if I was bored for some reason and wanted to chat I guess.  I certainly don’t always go with people and go by myself plenty.  As you can see it applies to mostly bars or bar/grills for me.

    Post # 9
    7647 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @joya_aspera:  No. I can pee on my own. However, if I was in a sketchy place or somewhere I felt uncofrtable (not sure where that would be–maybe a bar?) I would bring a friend, but definitely not for socialization purposes!

    Post # 10
    7276 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I hate going to the bathroom with other people. If I know someone is in there I try to avoid it so I definitely don’t make it a point to go with friends.

    Post # 11
    6222 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    I always have to pee, so if I folllow someone that’s why. It’s not a social thing.


    If someone is offended because I didn’t follow her to the bathroom, then we really don’t need to be friends


    Post # 12
    727 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    If other women are already getting up from the table to pee, I’ll go at the same time simply so I don’t have to make them move again when I eventually have to go.

    It happens, but it’s not really planned that way.

    Post # 13
    1150 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Agree with the bar situation, but other than that, no.

    Sometimes it just happens, like after dinner at a restaurant when we get up to leave. But I wouldn’t go just because another woman was going.

    Post # 14
    7385 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I never understood the whole going to the bathroom thing. If it happens to coinside fine but I don’t go out of my way to share the experience.

    Post # 15
    1373 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @Eckle:  Ha, it’s not a common occurance but I remember it happening once or twice in college. I remember once I felt awkward telling her to leave so she turned her back and I pretended to pee, and then made an excuse to escape the group 20 minutes later so I could go in private. Nowdays I’d be “I don’t THINK so!” 

    Post # 16
    2565 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I go when I need to.  I’m not going to wait until there is a group ready to head off to the ladies room,  and I wouldn’t hold it to avoid being part of a bathroom group.

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