Do you have a diamond, moissanite or other?

posted 1 year ago in Rings
  • poll: Do you have a diamond or moissanite e-ring?
    Diamond : (120 votes)
    61 %
    Moissanite : (49 votes)
    25 %
    Other : (29 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 16
    122 posts
    Blushing bee


    Both of mine are moonstone

    Post # 17
    91 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2019

    1ct oval Moissanite. I couldn’t justify the price of a natural diamond for the knowledge of how unethically most diamonds are mined, and I decided if I was going to have something lab grown I would rather save the money and get a Moissanite. My ring is not a rock by any means, but it is exactly what I wanted. We just got engaged on Friday and I am obsessed with it!



    Post # 18
    2514 posts
    Sugar bee

    jayquellen :  This.

    I have a family diamond. Probably would have gone with a sapphire otherwise. 

    Post # 19
    658 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    I have both! My moissanite is what I wear when I want just a simple solitaire with a big stone. My diamond is smaller but in a much more intricate setting. 

    Post # 20
    3085 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2006

    Engaged with a diamond because I didn’t know there were other options. Plan on upgrading to a moissanite set soon, but will eventually swap them out with lab diamonds. Honestly, if I had the money now, my upgrade set would be lab diamonds and I’d skip moissanite altogether. 

    I guess the value of a diamond has been drilled into women’s brains for so many years, it’s hard to shake it. It’s stupid, I’m aware, but I’m just being honest. Kinda like more expensive = better even though that’s not always the case. 

    Post # 21
    9692 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2016

    I have a blue sapphire. Diamonds were never really my thing, I prefer a pop of color.

    Post # 22
    443 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2019

    Diamond! I don’t think I would have wanted a non diamond stone for my engagement ring, just not for me. 

    I think moissonite is more common on these boards than in real life. I’ve only ever met one person who actually mentioned it IRL once. 

    Post # 23
    1336 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2016 - Painswick Church and the Falcon Hotel

    Diamond!! 😊

    Post # 24
    376 posts
    Helper bee

    whiteheadtobe :  I love moissanite and think they make great engagement rings, but I never know when people say “unethical” when it comes to diamonds, what they mean.

    Most major retailors make sure their diamonds are conflict free and most have been since the Kimberley Process in 2001. Environmentally, gold mining has a larger impact than diamond mining. 

    Is there something I’m missing?

    Post # 25
    554 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    I have a diamond. I originally had a white sapphire but it just wasn’t sparkly enough for me for a wedding ring. I get that the whole marketing thing has pushed diamonds on us but it’s hard to ignore the 10 durability and high refractive index. That being said, I do think that both moissanite and sapphires are excellent choices. I am in love with moissanite now and have a right hand ring in the works! 

    Post # 28
    1116 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2019 - USA

    Soon2BMrsFredericks :  I have a diamond ring but I would have been perfectly okay with moissanite. My fiance just really wanted to get me a diamond ring I guess. 

    Post # 30
    4057 posts
    Honey bee

    I have various diamonds that I rotate, but my favorite lately is the fancy yellow. I love gem stones as well, and wear them as RHRs. My favorites are padparadscha sapphires and paraibas. I’m very interested in geology, so lab made stones don’t do anything for me at all.

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