Post # 1
It’s great and excited to share you special feeling with another friend who is also engaged, she’s getting married next year…BUT it gets weird when she starts asking how much I paid for certain things and then ends up booking same photographer, same florists, looking to get same favors. Even commented to see how my wedding turns out to make decisions on hers. EEEK. Can’t help but distance myself. How do I deal without being mean?
Post # 3
Both my sister and my bestie are both getting married this year. My sister and I are using the same basic color just different accent colors. We share ideas and everthing. My bestie is just starting to plan so I try to give her as much advice as I can.
My sister and I have the same taste so we have a lot of the same ideas but we are just going to put our own personal touch on it to make it our own. Its not bothering me at all.
Post # 4
Well as long as she is choosing a different look I don’t see the problem with her using your vendors. Maybe she wanted to get a good reference from someone she knows. But if she starts using the same theme and decorations, etc. Then that could be getting a little weird. I have a lot of friends having weddings around the same time as me I was all to happy to reference my wedding planner, florist, photographer, etc to them it’s sending the vendors business.