(Closed) Do you have dreams where SO is a huge jerk?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you have dreams where SO is a huge jerk?
    YES, regularly! : (35 votes)
    36 %
    No : (17 votes)
    18 %
    Once or twice : (42 votes)
    44 %
    I used to (please explain what changed below) : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    2399 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    haha I do. I wake up most of the time wanting to choke him. (: It’s just a dream.

    Post # 4
    9681 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @figgnewton:  +1, lol. I wake up mad at him and I say, you just [insert whatever he did in the dream]. And he patiently says, no babe, that was dream me, not real me ๐Ÿ˜› I have punched him and yelled at him in my sleep though (apparently).

    Post # 5
    916 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I had a dream a few days ago that he was very angry and smashing the door in. I was on the other side of the door. It was weird because he’s never been like that with me, but I know he used to have an anger problem when he was younger.

    Post # 6
    6354 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I had one recently! And I still felt mad at him when I woke up!

    He was not very understanding of my aloof mood about it though (I’m ususally in a cuddly mood when I wake up but I was definitely not!), even after I explained to him what a jerk he’d been. “But it was YOUR dream!” he said…. LOL!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

    About 10 mins after waking up I was fully back in reality though ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 7
    685 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    OMG I just had a weird dream about him where he took me shopping for jewelry and when we picked something out (it was like a $50 pendant) he just yelled out “psych!” and went and bought some speakers at a store next door.  Made no sense!! 

    He was wondering why I was pissed that day ๐Ÿ˜›

    Post # 8
    2949 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I’ve had them and the most memorable one is the dream I had after a Halloween party where I dreamt that we had indeed gone to the event but I walked in on him cheating on me. I think I may have gone homicidal and broken the girl’s spine Undecided


    It took me a few seconds after I woke up to realize that the events in the dream didn’t actually happen but it was all so vivid. I like to theorize that because the Fiance is generally really great and I’ve had some really bad relationships, my subconscious is playing out my fear that the Fiance is secretly a huge jerk.

    Post # 9
    903 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I do! I don’t know why, because he’s so good to me in real life lol. But it’s to the point that when I tell him about one, he’s always like, “Man, why is dream Darling Husband so mean to you?!” haha

    Post # 10
    1017 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Yes! I wake up upset with him and he has to say “hey! you can’t be mad about what I did in YOUR dream!”

    Post # 11
    8470 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    No, it’s usually ME that’s the huge jerk in my dreams! 

    Post # 12
    1540 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I’ve had lots of dreams about SO breaking up with me or cheating on me lol.

    Post # 13
    4554 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I’ve had a few – the one I’ll never forget is the one where Darling Husband slept with my sister. I was so upset when I woke up… though I’m not sure if that dream was really about Darling Husband or my sister.

    Post # 14
    1416 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I’ve been so mad or hurt that I just can’t look at him all day. I tell him and he thinks I’m absurd, but I’ve seen him do hurtful things or hear him say hurtful things and it affects me even if I know it’s not real!

    Post # 15
    1459 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

    Just yesterday I dreamed that Boyfriend or Best Friend had hidden my toothbrush :3 what a douche


    i quite often dream about fights and breakups as well.

    Post # 16
    3552 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    My mom had a dream where she and I were sunbathing on the sidewalk in lounge chairs and my father came over and thew the fish from our pond on us (we’ve got koi and large goldfish, so it would have hurt in real life). She was pissed at him for that one for a few days. She also had another one where he lost one of our pets in the woods on purpose, I think it was the rabbit, he got in trouble for that one too. I’ve only had one about Fiance and that was back when we were dating in highschool. I dreamt we had sex, my parents walked in on us, and he left me alone to deal with the consequences, I was not happy with him in that dream.

    Sometimes we think our rabbit has dreams like this. She’ll be sleeping in a corner of a room no one is in when suddenly she wakes up and flips out like she does when my dad is punishing her for being consitently naughty.

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