Post # 1
Ok, this is totally NWR but this has been bugging me and I’d like to know what other people have done. So some of my girlfriends have really sucky/[email protected]/douchey/bad friends. These buttheads happen to be all men. I cut one of my girlfriends out of my life (pretty much) because she constantly chose them over me. And those guys who are her friend- well, they would verbally attack and bully my husband. It was causing some drama in our relationship too, so I just cut her, hence cutting them, out. Another guy, though, stuck around and still hangs out with some of my girlfriends. I have a hard time trusting my girlfriends now, because this guy has verbally attacked ME via Facebook and in real life. So I blocked him, stopped hanging around our mutual spots and friends. But my girlfriends still ask me to hang out (without that a–hole of course), but as I said, I don’t trust them. I mean why would they want to hang out with such a sucky person? Me and hubby are harmless, this guy is a regulation douche who attacked me all the time for no reason!
Do you, or have you ever had, friends/a friend with sucky friends/a friend? What did you do? Cut them out? Hold them at arm’s length, like I’m doing now? Maintain the friendship and ignore that aspect of their lives completely?
Post # 3
Oh honey it’s worse for me because my friends aren’t friend with sucky guys my BFF is married to a Number 1 Grade A Douche bag haha..
Yes I think i would continue to cut them out or just straight up tell them why you don’t want to be around them anymore because they think this childish silly stuff is fun or cute or whatever…
I’m not confrontational so I could prolly never say it out loud but that’s just me…
Post # 4
Ugh, yeah, I think that happens a lot- when a friend marries an idiot (a la the Lauren-Heidi-Spencer thing on The Hills!).
I am really non-confrontational too, so when these friends keep asking me to hang out I keep telling them “Yeah… Sure…. Sometime….” rather than telling them what fools they are being by hanging around that stupid kid . They talk about him to me, too, and it’s like, “Ummmm, can you not….”
Post # 5
yeah that’s how it is on my side of things too…hopefully they’ll either grow up or take a hint and move on. i know it really sucks too when you’re friends with these people and you really wanna hang out with them but all they wanna do is hang out with losers.
best of luck to you and if you find a clever solution let me know i might need to steal it lol
Post # 6
Yea i had to cut out my best friend i had for years. Like i luv her to death but the way she treated my husband was just gross. This one time she scrapped off all the hair off the cat post and rubbed it in my husbands face. Then she makes fun of his disabilities and anything to put him down. The wierd thing is why? Why put him down all the time. So she asked me for a favor and i said No, cause i didnt agree her choices in life and the favor and she called me a lil B%%$^&. So i said i am done 15 years down the drain.