(Closed) Do you have intimate dreams about someone other than your SO?

posted 4 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Who do you have intimate dreams with and how do you feel?
    Only ever SO : (18 votes)
    6 %
    My Ex : (44 votes)
    15 %
    Celebrities : (37 votes)
    13 %
    Friends/Acquaintances : (61 votes)
    21 %
    Other.. Explain Below : (14 votes)
    5 %
    Guilty : (20 votes)
    7 %
    Unconcerned.. its Normal : (76 votes)
    26 %
    I think its Funny : (25 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    9956 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    As you have said, this is totally “normal”

    Personally, this happens rarely… lol, the majority of my dreams are Adventures vs Romantic

    When they’ve been Romantic, they always tend to be with either Mr TTR, or someone who I’ve had a relationship / crush on (always find it fascinating that at my age my brain will dig up someone from my past / youth… makes these dreams kind of fun / intriguing to say the least)


    Post # 4
    3028 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

    I often have sexy dreams about strangers. Or celebrities. Or exes. 😐

    Post # 6
    626 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @blushbliss:  I had an intimate dream about my coworker who I am completely unattracted to, and he is good friends with my FI.  Super weird!  I was definitely disturbed when I woke up!  Dreams have deeper meanings than the obvious though, for example I read that when you dream about a death, it means that there will be a change in your life or something like that, lol.  Who knows! 

    Post # 7
    810 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Usually friends or old crushes that have come up in converstation or on my facebook feed recently haha. Sometimes it’s totally random. Every now and then an ex will pop in, but those dreams I wake up feeling repulsed and in a sour mood (bad breakup kinda stuff).

    More often those intimate dreams are of DH and then I wake up smiling to his handsome face, and a litle frisky 😉

    Post # 8
    1736 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I have these dreams from time to time. A long time ago, before meeting FI, I had a dream about my boss, who I was totally unattracted to. My friends laughed at me for years! 

    Most recently, I had a dream I was Adam Levine’s girlfriend! I like him but I’m not obsessed with him or anything. 

    I think these dreams are funny and I’m unconcerned. If my FI has dreams like this, I hope he’ll keep it to himself, though!

    Post # 10
    3308 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010


    Fantasies and dreams are harmless. As long as there is no infidelity in real life, there is no harm in dreaming about others. It is probably best not to share them with your partner.

    I dream about Mr. John Theodore Rossi, better known as Theo Rossi. He is a little known tv star. Jesus Christ, this man is scrumptious. If dreaming about Mr. Rossi is wrong, I don’t want to be right. Kiss

    Post # 11
    3672 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @blushbliss:  I don’t normally have romantic dreams but when I do they are about Mr.Payless

    There is no harm in dreaming of others though! I don’t dream enough to really have variety in my fantasies 🙂 

    Dream Mr.Payless usually comes in pairs though 😉 

    Post # 12
    4050 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I don’t have sexy dreams terribly often, but they have been with a variety of characters. Sometimes my FI. Sometimes an acquaintance. Sometimes someone from my past (most recently had one about an former HS teacher I used to fancy!).

    I sometimes feel guilty when it’s about someone I currently know. Well, less guilt and more awkward. I know it’s normal though and not a big deal. Doesn’t bother me.

    Post # 13
    437 posts
    Helper bee

    I do sometimes and I’m not a fan. Every once in a while I’ll have one about my ex, and I wake up feeling so shitty. I can’t remember the last sex dream I had that I actually enjoyed that didn’t involve SO.

    But he is also the worst dream cheater! I have dreams about him cheating or otherwise being a jerk, and he has cheating dreams relatively frequently. He used to have a lot where I caught him in the dream, and he would sometimes wake up and just roll over and hug me tight. He says that they are there to always remind him to never fuck it up! Sometimes I’m curious about who it is, but then I realize I don’t want to ask just in case it’s someone in real life! 

    Post # 14
    47 posts
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Haha yup! last one was about FI’sreally good friend!, eeeep!

    Post # 15
    7106 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I sometimes have them about my ex and I usually feel a bit strange/guilty right after waking up but I forget about it quickly. 

    Post # 16
    1496 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Sometimes.  Totally random people too.  I always feel guilty and try not to dream-cheat.  


    And then I wake up feeling guilty too.   It sucks.  


    Wtf subconsious, wtf.  

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