Post # 1
Soooo, FH will not have sex with me at all during my period. Sometimes I understand…yeah maybe it’s a little gross. But other times I want to have sex so bad that I don’t care. He, on the other hand, thinks it’s a complete turnoff and has no interest. I’ve suggested putting a towel down, doing it in the shower etc. Nope. He wants no part of it.
Is this how it is for most people? I know that some guys don’t care, and will have sex no matter what time of the month it is, but I’m curious how alone I really am. Do you and your SO do it during your period?
Post # 3
We do it toward the end of my period.
Post # 4
Body fluids are body fluids be they blood or vaginal secretions, why stop the party?
Post # 5
I’m actually the one that finds it a little gross. FI is perfectly okay with it. We don’t usually get intimate around that time…but if I’m having a really bad period I’ll give in because it really does help ease the pain.
Post # 6
Dude, that is seriously when I want it the most. Sometimes like uncontrollably. At least Fiance has no issue with it.
ETA: I should clarify that the first few days are completely off limits- as I am in a terrible mood, crampy, and generally pretty heavy. But after that: Game On!
Not that you guys really needed to know all that……
Post # 7
I used to when I was younger but I use it as an excuse to have a week off now. LoL. My ‘drive’ just isn’t what it used to be…
Post # 8
My Fiance could careless..I’m the one that’s cramping/moody/feeling gross.
Post # 9
Fiance is totally fine with it. I feel gross and want no part of it. Sometimes he can convince me to but it’s pretty damn rare.
Post # 10
He says that seeing blood on that part of his body is too “disturbing” for him, and he said even seeing a speck of blood would make him lose an erection. I understand maybe not wanting to do it during the first few heavy flow days, but toward the end, I think it should be fine. And like some of you other girls, I am MORE horny during my period than I am regularly. And since my periods last almost 7 days, that means 1/4 of each month we can’t have sex. I’m frustrated, but I feel like there is no way to convince him otherwise.
Maybe I’ll eventually end up like HappilyEverAfter54 though, and just welcome the break after a while!
Post # 11
Neither of us are into it. Darling Husband doesn’t want anything to do with period blood, and my lady bits are far too sensitive when Aunt Flo’s in town for me to enjoy anything being stuffed up there. Plus I have zero sex drive during my period.
Post # 12
Eh, not personally big fans, but every once in a while.
If you have a light flow, and you’re wearing tampons, really, there’s nothing much going on down there to kill the mood. It’s not like a horror slasher film. Check the oil, and then go to town. 🙂
Post # 13
At the very end sometimes, but generally no. I am like some of you, I actaully get a spike of wanting to, but Fiance hates it. Sometimes he will let me take advantage of him… lol
Post # 14
Never, ever been a fan of this. On the light last day, maybe and thats a .001 percentage. Plus I like to be touched and fingered how the hell is that gonna happen if its bloody down there. Urghh Not a Fan.
Post # 15
Yes, we have plenty of times. It doesn’t bother either of us. Besides the first day, because I cramp REALLY bad, get dehydrated (diabetic) & get sick to my stomach easy on the first day.
Post # 16
Rarely, though I am so horny during my period!! Darling Husband will usually only have sex with me on my period in the shower, but it rarely happens.