(Closed) Do you have the same political views as your SO?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Do you have the same political views as your SO?
    Yes, our views pretty much align : (72 votes)
    49 %
    We at least agree on the "big" things : (29 votes)
    20 %
    No, we're pretty opposite (and it is sometimes a problem) : (6 votes)
    4 %
    No, we're pretty opposite (and that's okay with us) : (9 votes)
    6 %
    We agree on some things, disagree on others : (27 votes)
    18 %
    We just don't talk about it : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Other (explain) : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    8584 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Yes we see eye to eye.

    Post # 4
    9000 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    For the most part, we agree. We differ here and there but that is to be expected.

    Post # 5
    9255 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    Yes, more or less. To me, our political views are matters of basic human decency. I’m not sure I could love someone who disagrees on things like gay rights, environmental protection, tax equality, etc.

    Post # 6
    2123 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @CzechBride14:  Yeah, basically the same. I’m sure we disagree about something but it hasn’t come up yet.

    Post # 7
    842 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @CzechBride14:  Definitely. I could never marry someone who didn’t have the same politics as me. Your politics are such a reflection of who you are as a person and I’m sorry but I don’t believe that someone who is against right for women, gay people, poor people, animals, and the enviroment is a good person at all. FH and I disagree on some small things but like a pp said, that’s normal and to be expected. 

    Post # 8
    8489 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    We’re both the same in that we really dont get into it.

    Post # 9
    1128 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    We do. We are both very liberal, I think there’s only one or two minor issues we disagree on (legalization of certain drugs being one).

    Post # 10
    4424 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 1997

    In THEORY we both agree, but in reality, the very, very far right  is quite cose to the very, very far left…

    Post # 11
    1800 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I think we would both be considered to have the same political affiliation, but SO has some wonky beliefs that really come out of nowhere sometimes LOL.

    Post # 12
    524 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    We have very similar beliefs. I only had one real hot-button political ‘requirement’ and that was that anyone I was in an LTR with had to support marriage equality. My brother’s FI is my second brother, and I wasn’t going to put up with someone who was going to be a jerk about it. My FI’s only real ‘requirement’ was that he needed a girl who didn’t mind guns. So we match up pretty well.

    Post # 13
    1219 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @CzechBride14:  We agree on some things but we vote for different parties. I have absolutely no idea why he votes for the party he does but I’m not going to try and change his mind!

    I don’t think I could marry someone who didn’t share my beliefs on some issues (gay rights, abortion rights, women’s rights).

    Post # 14
    9956 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    We agree for the most part… Federally & Provincially

    We sometimes disagree Municipaly that is no big deal.



    Post # 15
    10509 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I don’t see how we could have the same views, as my views can change from one year to another.  The ‘big’ things also change, as it’s a matter of opinion.  Averaging things out, we do tend to agree.

    Post # 16
    954 posts
    Busy bee

    We agree. I couldn’t be with someone who strongly disagreed with my political views; they’re a large part of who I am.

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