Post # 1
I am friends with many guys on Facebook. Some of these guys are the boyfriends/fiances/husbands of my female friends. We all hang out together in groups or as couples. Sometimes I take photos of all of us, and I like to be able to tag the guys in them. Recently, I friend requested a new female friend of mine and her husband, since Fiance and I started hanging out with them a lot.
The female friend told me she noticed I added her husband on Facebook, and said she didn’t mind since she knew I was a good person. However, she told me that in the future I should ask other females if they would mind if I add their SO as a friend. She said a lot of women can get very jealous and might not like me adding their men.
Is this true? I’ve never even considered that I could be offending women this way. Have you ever been upset because a friend of yours added your SO on Facebook?
Post # 3
That sounds a little bit insane to me.
Post # 4
- Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House
Wow that lady must know some women that keep their men on very short leashes. That is intense and crossing the line in my opinion. I would think these women were very very insecure.
Post # 5
Hellllll to the no. Way too controlling.
Post # 6
I would have laughed in her face. Why would you have to ask someone permission to add a grown ADULT on Facebook? That is ridic. Is she really that far up his bum that she thinks he has to ask permission to add a mutual friend? Lordy.
Post # 7
WHAT?!?!! She’s crazy!! I would never be offended if a girl friends my Darling Husband. Then again, I don’t own him, keep him on a leash and control his thoughts.
Post # 9
Yeahhh that’s crazy. I would have had trouble not laughing hysterically.
Post # 10
Hmm.. to be honest, I do ask my friends before I add their guys. And if they break up, they are then deleted. If my friend added my Fiance I would be ok with it..but if a random ass girl did/one that only he knows I would def not be OK with it.
Post # 11
that’s the most retarded thing i have ever heard in my life.
she needs help.
Post # 12
My Darling Husband doesn’t have facebook, but I don’t get “permission” for anything. That is way way way too much control for my book, and we don’t play that way.
Post # 14
Um, if Fiance made me ask permission for that, he would not be my Fiance. And if I knew any guys (or girls) that required that of their SO, I probably wouldn’t be his friend either. That seems overly controlling and not healthy.
Post # 15
Ew, that’s ridiculous. No, neither of us has any say in what the other does on facebook and shouldn’t.
Post # 16
Yeah, I think she’s just speaking for herself there. *Rolls Eyes* She sounds like a peach 😉 I would laugh at someone who asked me for permission to add my husband on facebook.