(Closed) Do you have to ask you man to shower, shave, or otherwise be hygienic?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you have to ask you man to shower, shave, or otherwise be hygienic?
    He showers on his own and this is clean enough for me. : (112 votes)
    28 %
    He showers on his own but I have to ask him to wear cleaner clothes. : (17 votes)
    4 %
    I have to tell him to take showers. : (13 votes)
    3 %
    He showers, but I have to remind him to freshen up! : (26 votes)
    6 %
    I have to ask him to shave. : (64 votes)
    16 %
    He is always clean-shaven, showered, and well-dressed. : (162 votes)
    40 %
    Other, please explain:) : (11 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    485 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    He’s an adult and I’m not his mother.

    If he’s *base level* of hygiene wasn’t acceptable, I wouldn’t be with him.

    Post # 4
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    5984 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    i have to remind Darling Husband to shower all the time. Same with brushing his teeth, etc. the days just get away from him and before he knows it, it has been days since he showered. Not on my watch! So, I just make sure to remind him BEFORE he has the chance to forget. I have lived with him long enough to know 😀

    Post # 5
    Member
    46415 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I  wouldn’t be with a man who needed “reminding” about hygiene.

    Post # 7
    Member
    3697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    He showers on weekdays and shaves every few days.  That doesn’t bother me – he has a sensitive baby face.  🙂

    On the weekends, though… he refuses to shower.  So gross.  He says “I’m going to work on this or that and get dirty, and then I’ll shower.”

    Post # 8
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    2196 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I don’t have to give him any. He showers way more than I do! He usually takes two showers a day. Doesn’t let his hair or facial hair get out of hand.

    Post # 9
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    3471 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    Occasionally I’ll ask my husband to shave, but that’s mostly because I prefer his facial hare different than he does– not really because he “needs” to. 

    Post # 10
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    2697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    He showers more often than I do. So, no.

    Post # 11
    Member
    1659 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    He showers at least once a day and usually twice. Honestly, I’m the dirty one!

    Post # 12
    Member
    1306 posts
    Bumble bee

    Darling Husband is always fresh to death.  Love it.

    My ex, on the other hand?  Oh man.  I had to BEG him to shower.  I told him on more than one occassion that I would hands down not sleep with him unless he showered.  Because he only showered ONCE PER WEEK otherwise.  *gag*  No one wants week-old dick.

    Post # 13
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    1992 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Marry Jane:  I am not grossed out easily but my boo is very clean & tidy. He is from London and was raised in a culture with a higher set of standards of fashion/hygene and I love it! He can work up a sweat in the gym & be dirty and everything from sports but always cleans up nicely!

    Post # 14
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    1769 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I would not be with a man who needs to be reminded to keep up with his personal hygiene.

    Post # 15
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    1030 posts
    Bumble bee

    showers every day (except maybe if he’s incredibly late or something) but i never have to tell him to clean himself.

    he has a beard, but he keeps it very well maintained. he probably takes more care over his appearance than most men I know!

    he’s Italian – I wouldn’t expect anything less!

     

    @almostmrsj:  I definitely get the whole ‘let me do these dirty jobs’ before I have a shower, because i hate getting dirty again once i clean and I clean up best in my PJs!

    Post # 16
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    998 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @bestbuddies:  i honestly don’t know how my fiancé goes all day without brushing his teeth either sometimes. I’m glad I’m not the only one 🙂

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