(Closed) Do you have to get ready with your bridesmaids?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

No, you do not have to get ready with your bridesmaids. If your bridesmaids are staying nearby to the venue and they would have to travel over an hour in order to get ready with you, then I would be definitely saying that this is unnecessary – it would be such an inconvenience for them. I think asking them to show up at the venue or wherever you’re meeting at X time would be fine. Do they all know each other? Perhaps they could get ready together or help out with each other’s hair/makeup if need be?

Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You definitely don’t have to get ready with them, even though not doing so is a bit unorthodox.  Have you asked any of them if they are interested in doing hair and makeup at their own expense?  They might want to spend this time with you.  Otherwise — let them get ready on their own like you suggested and meet up when you’re all gussied up! 

Post # 4
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Helper bee

nope, I only had my Maid/Matron of Honor get ready with me. The rest of the girls came over all ready to take pictures and get to the limo 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I would give them the option to pay for their own hair and makeup and go with you. I would be happy to pay and spend time with the bride.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

summerbride0815:  You definitely don’t have to! I am because I want to and think it will be so fun! But in your situation it might be a little bit of a hassle for the BMs if they aren’t getting their hair and make up done where you are. You could still all put your dresses on together? Or if there is time you can show up with your hair and make up done while they are stll doing theirs?

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

summerbride0815:  oh ok, fair enough. You don’t want them saying they felt obliged.

 Maybe your Maid/Matron of Honor might offer to go with you 🙂 

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