(Closed) do you have toys?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: do you use toys?

    no - i dont like them or want them

    no - my SO doesnt like it

    yes - regularly

    yes - but it took some convincing

    sometimes

    other

  • Post # 17
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    68 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I use them by myself, and we have great sex with and without them. SO is not intimidated by them. He knows there is no toy on earth that can replace him, but he also knows he doesn’t vibrate haha. He is pretty open minded and willl go shopping with me and make suggestions. 

    If you learn a bit about the clitoris, you will know that most of it is on the inside, and when it is erect it actually wraps around the vagina making penetration more pleasureable. So even if you just use a vibe during foreplay (or let him use it on you Wink) then throw it to the side for sex, it can mean more intense orgasms during penetration. SO loves pleasing me so obviously he loves that. 

    It’s fine to have preferences but would consider someone trying to dictate how I masturbate a red flag. Would you tell him he can’t jerk off when he’s alone, because it means you’re not pleasing him enough?

    Secure men know they are not in competition with toys, they are just one more tool in their toolbox for pleasing their ladies, 

    Post # 18
    Member
    67 posts
    Worker bee

    We want some. We have looked around. We plan on getting some when we move in but all we have for right now is a paddle. But he knows I have a hard time reaching that “O” moment so we want one of those mini rabbit things that vibrate for the…ahem…outside part. And he really wants to buy those vibrating panties that he can control with a seperate remote.
    Not that the sex with him isnt good. It is very good. I just have a very difficult time. Even if Im having tons of fun and feel amazing it wont happen by penetration alone.

     

     

     

    Post # 19
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    1406 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    My goodness! I have an entire arsenal of toys. The last time we went to Amsterdam I bought out half of the red light districts’ stock. But honestly, we rarely use them. I used to use them regularly in past relationships but DH and I have such a great sex life that we rarely do. 

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