(Closed) Do you have your guys…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you have his passwords?
    Yes : (89 votes)
    53 %
    No : (80 votes)
    47 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    666 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Yes every of them and he has mine as well 🙂

    Post # 4
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    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I have his, he has mine – it’s more for convenience at this point than anything else. I don’t check his e-mail unless I have a very good reason (such as getting his friends contact info for his surprise party) and the same goes for him. 

     

     

    Post # 5
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    827 posts
    Busy bee

    Yes, we have each other’s passwords. 

    Post # 6
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    6248 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    Yes.

    We have been together for 8 years so there’s pretty much nothing we don’t know about each other.

    Post # 7
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    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I have his FB one but not his email.

    Post # 8
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    2163 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I never even thought to exchange passwords…how exactly does that convo go? I’m curious if you guys asked, or how it came to be that you shared them…surprised that so many people have. If he asked for mine, I’d of course give it, but I’d also be like “umm…why?” 

    Post # 9
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    4352 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Sort of. I know all of his standard passwords. But I don’t know which ones go to which things (because I’m too lazy to keep them straight). I’m pretty sure I don’t know his email though because we have to change it pretty frequently (student email address). And I don’t know any of his bank account passwords, but we haven’t merged finances yet and won’t until the wedding. We do share several accounts though, like netflix.

    Post # 10
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    1856 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    We don’t, and I wouldn’t really want to have access to them. That’s his personal stuff.

    Post # 11
    Member
    792 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Yep, only because of the number of times one of us has had to phone the other to check an email/something to do with the bank. Knowing each others passwords was just easier!

    Post # 12
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    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    No, he doesn’t have my passwords but I have them all written down in my agenda. I do have his debit card password, but that’s because he forgets what it is!

    Post # 13
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    926 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @WhatMaeBee:   I’m curious about this too. I have one of his passwords, but it’s b/c he needed me to log in as him.  I don’t really know how this conversation goes without being all “Hey- I want access to your FB and email accounts.”

    Post # 14
    Member
    853 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    No. No need to. However, I do know the password to his computer so when I’m over at his house I can use it. Otherwise, why would I check his email, FB, or anything else?

    I would feel weird asking, I would feel weird giving, and I know he would feel weird asking. I just think there can be some mystery and – shock! – trust. I’m not trying to say that all people who exchange these lack trust, but I do think there should be some personal boundaries.

    Post # 15
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    2281 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We have each others’ passwords, but we constantly forget them. It’s a mess, and we’d suck at hacking each other if we had to. 

    Post # 16
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    9483 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Yes and he has mine.  It wasn’t a trust issue between us.  It was more of a “hey could log into my Facebook/e-mail/etc.  The password is ______.”

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