(Closed) Do you keep up with his sex drive?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@irishbee: I’m very similar to you. I could go weeks without it and be fine. Darling Husband wants to have sex literally every day, sometimes several times a day. It’s ridiculous and flattering at the same time. He initiates the most and I will do it about 75% of the time. I used to have a really high sex drive in the first year we were together! I think our sex life is great but Darling Husband will be like “We havent had sex in forever” even if its only been like 4 days!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper

I think it can be the opposite for us… I am the one who is pouncing on him every moment and he likes to wait every few days!

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so the opposite, I’m always after him to get some, and I mean everyday! He can on for weeks without any and I can’t. I guess I’m really in my prime time lol

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

We’re pretty evenly matched, I’d say. Ten years ago that probably wouldn’t have been the case; I used to have a nearly unquenchable sex drive. I’m kind of glad that’s tapered off a bit, lol. I’d hate to nearly always be the one initiating, it’s much more fun when Darling Husband switches into sexy mode. 🙂

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m the same as the OP. Hubbs wants it ALL.THE.TIME but I can go awhile without it… maybe a week, week and a half tops. He always says “it’s when I stop tryin to get some that should make you worry” and I agree. I’d rather have him chase me around the house for it all the time than not want it at all.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

@PitBulLover: I am like you and the OP too.

honestly, if there was a pill for women that would help, I would take it. I feel bad that my libido is so low.

fortunately, I keep an open dialouge with my Fiance. we constantly check in with each other to be sure we are  still ok with our arrangement. 

I think it really helps that I’m ok with him using a little er, online “inspiration” when he is taking care of himself too. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee

We’re about even.  A couple times a week is good for us.  Every now and then, more – and if we’re on vacation MUCH more but on a regular basis just a couple times.  Then again, we only see each other on weekends.  So I guess that means really it’s every day!

I couldn’t go weeks without it.  NO.  No way.

Post # 11
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538 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@PitBulLover: This is exactly how my boyfriend and I are.

I use to wanted it more but since I started BC (Implanon) I can go weeks without it and be ok. But if he wants to have sex we’ll do it.. it makes him happy and I end up having a good time.

Side note, I’ve been thinking about taking a Macca supplement, its an herb/natural pill that is suppose to increase your libido.

Post # 12
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689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I wish my Fiance would help himself a lot more…  Even when I want it, it hurts so much that half the time I’m happy just to give him head. He asks EVERY SINGLE DAY. It gets old. I feel bad that I don’t want to do it for him all the time, but at the same time I get pissed off when he is pouty that I don’t help him out twice a day every day. I’m also kind of sad that he now never asks for sex, always a blow job. I don’t think we’ve had proper sex in a couple months now.

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Caizn: He appears to be only thinking of his dick and not about you! Hes found a way through your willingness to please him to just cut right to the chase.

A blowjob is a nice gesture  but I recommend cutting back on them and pursuing a balanced sex life, that includes you and respects your timing desires!

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I feel like I’m the only one here with a very high sex drive lol… please tell me I’m not the only one

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