Here is my uncensured answers:
1) When he takes it out, does it ever have…you know…brown stuff on it?
That happened once, but not much at all. He didn’t mind. Acctually, the first time, “it” acctually dropped out together with his semen, right on his stomach (I was on top). Lol. I was kind of ashamed, but he just laughed and said it was nothing to worry about, and that it was his own fault. Lol. Never happend since, since I know how to avoid it! And we have done it a million times.
2) Does it smell?
Not at all!
3) Do you do enemas to prevent these problems???
Not, that’s not necessary, but I did try that a few times, but it just makes your butthole sore. I don’t recommend that.
4) I’ve never looked at myself down there. I’ve heard about porn actors “bleaching” it. Why does it need bleaching??? To kill bacteria maybe?
It’s to make the darker area lighter, if you take a look down there your anal opening will most likely be darker than the surrounding area, I guess it’s suposed to be prettier when lighter! (If you are a white woman, otherwise it might look a bit off with a white butthole, lol.)
5) How much does it hurt?
Not at all if you are relaxed, turned on and doing it right! Listen to your body!
6) Do you let him ummm, finish there? Can semen cause any medical problems in there??
Yes I do, not what I know of.
7) How much and what kind of lubricant?
99.9% of the times I just spit in my hand! Works just fine!
8) Do YOU actually enjoy it too?
From time to time, when I’m really turned on it’s a pleasure and nothing makes me as horny as that. When we first tried it I wanted to do it like at least 4 times a day for a few weeks! Lol. It’s really enjoyable. But when you do it just to be a “good girlfriend” it’s not as nice. It doesn’t necessarily have to be painful, not at all, if you take it slow in the beginning and if you let your butthole and the following part inside of you relax, but it’s more like “blah”, not fun and you just want it to be over., since you constantly have to remind yourself to relax. That part comes naturally when really turned on.
Sorry for the weird questions!
NP Bee. A good (and nice) tip is that he can always warm you up with a finger before you get started, again, not necessary, but you could see it as “foreplay”. A rimjob is also very nice to recieve! Makes the anal very relaxed and “inviting”. He says this doesn’t taste or small bad either! He claims he can’t feel any smell anything at all. I doubt that, but apparently, either way, it’s nothing that bothers him and he loves to be back there on me! And also, to have traditional sex before you go in through the back door is also a great way to get your body relaxed! Hot tip! And vibrators at your clit at the same time that he’s in there also helps you relax and enjoy it even more!
Just remember to never let him put it back into hole #1 after he’s been in #2! For bacterial reasons!
Now, I wish you both a fun weekend!