So I came across this thread and even though it’s sorta old, I’ll add to it since this is something I experienced this past weekend. To answer everything..
1) When he takes it out, does it ever have…you know…brown stuff on it?
No. And it most likely won’t.
2) Does it smell?
3) Do you do enemas to prevent these problems???
No, never have.
4) I’ve never looked at myself down there. I’ve heard about porn actors “bleaching” it. Why does it need bleaching??? To kill bacteria maybe?
No, it’s not to kill bacteria..only for cosmetic purposes (like bleaching your upper lip, for example).
5) How much does it hurt?
It doesn’t really hurt if he eases it in and starts off gently.
6) Do you let him ummm, finish there? Can semen cause any medical problems in there??
Yes I let him finish, and I don’t know of any medical problems. I can only speak for myself, and everything was fine.
7) How much and what kind of lubricant?
We did it after we massaged each other all over with lotion..baby oil also works. He could even transfer the fluids you have to the back, by rubbing it from the front, which we’ve done (sorry if TMI)
8) Do YOU actually enjoy it too?
Yes. Once you get used to it, it’s enjoyable.
My advice is to give it a chance if you want to. Everyone has their own view on it. But I wouldn’t shut it down just because people say “eww, that’s gross”. You won’t know if you like it unless you try.